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just 10 ringgit worth of charcoal will do the jobwhat ICE car lol
Abandoned In HKL: Mdm Soh’s Silent Cry For Family, The Price of Progress:Elders Left Behind
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Apr 23 2025, 11:48 AM
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Apr 23 2025, 11:49 AM
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There may be 2 sides to the coin. May be she has heartless children or sibling. Or may be the old patient was a very bad person in their younger days so their children/sibling don't want anything to do with that person. But the former case may be more common. arkasi liked this post
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Apr 23 2025, 11:50 AM
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I like how all ktard bharat haters conveniently ignore this line as it would pose soalan susah to their racist worldview: QUOTE Madam Soh’s next destination: an Indian non-governmental organisation (NGO)-run home in Batu Caves. “Most probably she will end her journey of life there,” Kuan notes with characteristic directness. This post has been edited by diffyhelman2: Apr 23 2025, 11:50 AM MegaCanonF and haya liked this post
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Apr 23 2025, 11:53 AM
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QUOTE(yhtan @ Apr 23 2025, 11:45 AM) maybe ada story behind, maybe she did something that piss off the rest of relative or brought problems to the family? Sometimes the reason is just simply no time. The old folks home near my house, they accept the old people for free, everyone has their own story. Some abandon their wife and children 20-30 years ago, some gamble until pokai, some is fiery attitude. A bed ridden old folk that can't take care of themselves need special attention. A working family can't take care of them, if they can't afford a maid/nurse, then who will look after them at home? It is different if the person who needs care only needs it for short term like 1 week compared to needing care 24/7 until they die. Such problems are widespread as our lifespan increases and there are more life-saving medicines to keep a person alive. yhtan and MegaCanonF liked this post
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Apr 23 2025, 11:54 AM
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Something so wrong in the family education nowadays. Family education burden cannot be left to be taught by school or religious entity; it must be taught by the family themselves.
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Apr 23 2025, 11:55 AM
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can't blame her siblings for not visiting her la. they are likely 80+- age also..
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Apr 23 2025, 11:58 AM
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Cukur ada hospital
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Apr 23 2025, 11:59 AM
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Apr 23 2025, 12:07 PM
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Only when shit happen , people will start thinking about family
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Apr 23 2025, 12:08 PM
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Apr 23 2025, 12:12 PM
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to those who want to be single, the money not spent on children better be put inside some savings for retirement village when old ok..
True story - got a single friend now almost 50, spend entire life rejoicing himself travel... now house also don't have. Savings don't have. He does not realize he is reaching the end of his working life... maybe another 5-10 years left before companies will look for younger people already. that's recipe for old age poverty and abandonment. To the singles out there... the least you can do is don't let your parents worry for you... save a lot of money for retirement ok |
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Apr 23 2025, 12:16 PM
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QUOTE(nihility @ Apr 23 2025, 11:54 AM) Something so wrong in the family education nowadays. Family education burden cannot be left to be taught by school or religious entity; it must be taught by the family themselves. QUOTE(JohnL77 @ Apr 23 2025, 12:08 PM) SJKC day day teach confucian filial piety value since 5000 years ago end up old folks home paling ramai terbuang is type ... 20/80 ruffy_z liked this post
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Apr 23 2025, 12:16 PM
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QUOTE(TOROBO @ Apr 23 2025, 11:33 AM) I have a male colleague in his 50s. still single. been helping out with his niece and nephew problem since they was little. Imagine when he old and bedridden, both of his niece nephew cut ties with him...all his niece and nephew exploits him as a way to get out of financial difficulty. he even had to buy diapers for her janda niece. looks 2/10 so I also don wan gib any shiet This post has been edited by y500: Apr 23 2025, 12:17 PM |
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Apr 23 2025, 12:20 PM
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QUOTE(diffyhelman2 @ Apr 23 2025, 12:16 PM) SJKC day day teach confucian filial piety value since 5000 years ago end up old folks home paling ramai terbuang is type ... 20/80 My grand aunt took care of my great grandmother but my grand aunt didn't have children to take care of her (unmarried). In her final days she lived with her sister. ruffy_z liked this post
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Apr 23 2025, 12:34 PM
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Malaysian politicians and leaders dun care
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Apr 23 2025, 12:36 PM
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This is why don't breed bodoh! ruffy_z liked this post
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Apr 23 2025, 12:37 PM
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QUOTE(Chrono-Trigger @ Apr 23 2025, 12:12 PM) to those who want to be single, the money not spent on children better be put inside some savings for retirement village when old ok.. house , savings, not easy in Malaysia in 2008 financial crisis onwardsTrue story - got a single friend now almost 50, spend entire life rejoicing himself travel... now house also don't have. Savings don't have. He does not realize he is reaching the end of his working life... maybe another 5-10 years left before companies will look for younger people already. that's recipe for old age poverty and abandonment. To the singles out there... the least you can do is don't let your parents worry for you... save a lot of money for retirement ok ruffy_z liked this post
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Apr 23 2025, 12:40 PM
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Apr 23 2025, 12:43 PM
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I can see the pattern Tiger parents pushing kids to study hard 24/7 and find money hard coz they think it is the culture and way of life without considering the kids well being Later surprise Pikachu when the kids grown up and hating you 6996 liked this post
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