true . next best thing is caregiver .

dun hate the foreigners coming in for this job, coz for sure no local ppl would get this job . taking care of elderly , change pampers etc, is seriously tiring work .

LOL no.

This will encourage strawberrys to commit suicide whenever they break up or Crypto crash.

Burnt to death is worst way to die. Carbon monoxide poisoning is hundred times better.

True... must be genuinely good with niece / nephew. They will come back to you.

Um, not sure whether not doing anything is considered a major F up or not,

(not planning anything, is the same as planning to fail huh... ...)


cause my wife have an elder sister (50yrs) who is unmarried is just plain lazy and does not care to help us cope with our daughters when we needed some short term help (not monetary)... ...

Oh well, the mental seeds i intend to sow into my daughters will not benefit her in any way as well then... ...

This post has been edited by BelaCHAN: Apr 23 2025, 11:20 AM

you ingat suka2 mati meh? damn alot procedure to sign off the approval.

unless she is leaving tons of inheritance, if not wont happen, come visit with fruit basket already very good...

nowadays, unless you die, no one will kesian at you...

In Futurama, there are convenient kiosks. Step in make payment, confirm to proceed.

Love yourself more, stay healthy and NEVER expect help of any kind.

Help comes by, not by BEGGING.

Got kids scare char siew. No kids scare no one take care...owai

Those who expects niece/nephew to take care, they probably too naive not yet seen actual reality around them. Even own children may wish their parents quickly move on after a period of laborious hardship. Taking care of immobile sick elderly is no joke.

Sandwich generation dilemma, elders having longer life and adults getting married late and having kids late leading to financial and mental pressure. So which would you choose ? Some decide to abandon their elders.

walaowei kenot simply generalize like that la

I have a male colleague in his 50s. still single. been helping out with his niece and nephew problem since they was little.
all his niece and nephew exploits him as a way to get out of financial difficulty. he even had to buy diapers for her janda niece.
looks 2/10 so I also don wan gib any shiet

World Top Billionaire also no retire,

Work till almost last day.

B40 mindset all want retire at 40.

Aiyooo surrounded by char siews.

Yes, must listen to both side of the stories.
1) Maybe the auntie very difficult to take care and treat other people very bad.
2) Maybe the siblings and their families also cukup makan saja. How to take care of another person?

First of all, must take care of yourself financially and physically EVEN if you have children. You don't know what will happen next. Reminder to myself too.

probably not cheap, those provider probably charge kaw2 like funeral service nowdays
later payment declined, insufficient funds

just rent one

Or buy cheap rm2k old iswara/kancil

maybe ada story behind, maybe she did something that piss off the rest of relative or brought problems to the family?

The old folks home near my house, they accept the old people for free, everyone has their own story. Some abandon their wife and children 20-30 years ago, some gamble until pokai, some is fiery attitude.