First advice
Chill. Men don’t like woman up their a55es.

Second advice
Be more confident of yourself and don’t doubt the man. If you doubt the man and he makes you insecure just end the relationship. Your insecurity is a YOU problem not a him problem.

If he chooses to cheat on you there’s nothing you can do and it’s not your fault. Note the keyword he choose to cheat. You install a chastity belt with biometric lock also useless if he wants to cheat, he will figure a way out.

The silly argument men enjoy is “my fav choc cake sold out, pout, told you come earlier why you so slow, now no more” then give him chance to cheer you up and make it up to you. These “argument” is just banter. And it’s not a pain to the guy. If you’re a constant pain, he’ll just get rid of you.

Still new
Honeymoon period

I let you in a secret. Once the newness/novelty of a woman wears off a man, e.g. she’s new & exciting, pretty, got big melons etc.

His patience will go down and the metric will be how useful or painful you are. Once the pain passes the threshold (every guy has diff threshold) he will start to stray. That’s why even the bf of prettiest woman also can get bored of her shit once novelty is gone.

The saying goes.. behind every successful man there is a woman. What that sentence left out - there is a right woman. If the woman day day drama he where got time to succeed. Everyday layan her bs no energy already.

He’s 47? LDR right? Show up one day at his workplace after work when you confirmed he is at work.

To surprise him. Don’t let him know you’re coming. Maybe do it on his birthday.

You can thank me, or you can thank me. Either way you win.

You in cloud 9. And you have too much time in your hands. Keep busy with work yourself so that it doesn’t drive you nuts.

Remember, a couple is 2 mature, emotionally healthy and stable individuals together. If you have too much time on your hands and overthink things it’ll creep up on you. Just be yourself.