Dont walk bro..run.

You pity her?

Pity yourself.

Your are not a teenager. You are in your late 40s..your time on earth is running out. Your time as a healthy man is even less. Dont waste time on this type of bs.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Jan 29 2025, 01:12 AM

Not even any phone call ?

You are seriously wasting time, better cabut from this psycho land whale while you can

actually not sure if this post is real or just trolling.

if it's a real post, please just wake up and block her number.

already almost 50 and still can have feelings for someone you never met or piap.


sorry bro, you're better off just using sugar book and pay per piap

your chances of looking for a soul mate are very low unless you join activities which align to these interests...

Not your job to comfort her

Like other said... Just blah only. Don't waste your time

If you really pity her, maybe ask her which scam call center she is held prisoner, help her call police.

honestly how do you even attracted to her

If I knew early...I wouldn't have attracted to her

I got scammed by her filter pictures where she looked like she's in her 30s

Turns out she's late 40s and overweight

By the time I knew about it...I already have feelings for her.

One of the reason are her voice

Pleasant and calming

This post has been edited by Antje: Jan 30 2025, 05:53 AM

Quite concerned that you were attracted to such a woman.

The relationships you attract and the situations you find yourself in are all things you have attracted based on your inner feelings and thoughts.

You’re looking for someone who is on your “level”. Even though you are unaware, you’re looking for someone who mirrors your emotional state and the unresolved aspects of yourselves.

Every person in your life reflects back to you who you are, how you think, your beliefs and perspectives. To attract the right person into your life you must be the right person.

So, when a relationship shifts or ends, ask yourself: What did they teach me about myself?

Honestly, being attracted to a woman in their late 40s are never my first choice.

Never crossed my mind.

I avoided them.

I thought she's in her 30s.

By looking at her dp profile.

Quite surprised when she told me she's the same age as me.




I prefer those in their 20s.

If 'level' that you are referring to is about age.



Probably I met her for a reason?

To be a friend.

She lacked attention.

Give her moral support.

Persuade her in doing the right thing.

Such as ending her relationship with a married man.

I want to address something the others have not, you have not met this woman, you have not had a phone call with her, yet you going to travel with her? You haven't heard of a similar scam from another ktard? Made payment to the travel agency then only realize it could be scam and then cannot get refund. Or worse, go to holiday and then get sold to a scam centre. Please be alert for this.

Agree with this one.

Normally scammer will use fake number to be friend with you where it only can call through socm (like WA and etc) but not through the number.
Goto oversea holiday might land you in Myanmar.

I will make sure everything checks out.

Her tiktok shows she went to Korea, Vietnam, Thailand, Indonesia etc.

Pictures and videos of her with the group she was travelling with.

I heard about that.

I did ask her if I could call her.

She said KIV

But I will make sure to call her directly and not using Tele or WA

She a spare tyre of X

You are his spare tyre

I don't get it

She flirting with u while telling u she has a boyfriend who already married


Toxic

She felt so lonely.

Just left him and be with me lah

This post has been edited by Antje: Jan 30 2025, 11:19 AM

Being single is much more peaceful

I tell you.

No worries.

No need to text, chat.




Yes you feel lonely sometimes but it's ok.

Better than feeling jealous, anxiety, prejudice etc.

Lonely heart are so much better than a broken heart.

tyre-ception

but TS Anyje seemed like in too deep already (even though never met the lady and already kena cat fished, lady also toxic).

As a fellow traveller in the road of life, TS, I'd say bypass her ba, save you a heck lot of pain later. Better short pain than long pain.

Sometimes when we had an argument

I gave her silent treatment

I felt free

Have more time for myself.

But each time when I heard the notification of her messages/voice note...

My anxiety got triggered.

Worry about things that she wrote or said that might trigger my anxiety.

Particularly the jealousy part....me being jealous.

I hated such feeling and situation.