When I was at your stage of my divorce, I got myself a sugar baby. Very much younger. My sb did help a lot in my rebound process.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: May 23 2025, 09:11 PM

Well maybe she's just staying away because your divorce isn't official yet? I agree action speaks louder than words, as long as you be clear you have no intentions to be her "bro", I guess you'll be safe outside the brozone, leaving you a binary result: yes=couple, or no=bye-bye

How old are you?

Mid 40.

Life up n down.

I think I pass thru all kind of shit from friend or family, employer or employee, dream or death.......

Good life, Happy n Happiness. Bad life, become philosopher!

Anything at the end, its money! Its cruel but fact!

You need story!? I got ton of it.

This post has been edited by w19: May 24 2025, 09:16 PM

We all go through our unique experiences that made us who we are. Some stand out, some fall, some disappear. Perhaps you have never received love from a girl because you focused on her looks (as for all guys including myself). Hence when you were down, your lady left you.

Also based on timeline, TS may already have a crush during decision to divorce. Think with d or with brain, that's his issue. Time will tell.

Hahahahahaha!

My ex wife just an ordinary girl, 101% not beautiful.

Outlook always not my first option.

I prefer someone natural smart n work hard.

The only problem is she is a mistress for dato.

That's time, I'm young n parent are uneducated. They have no life experience to share. Most of friend say after she with you. Thing will change. Even, i did call Chan Fong n ask. He say the same thing! I'm very sorry to let u know character is cancer. Please forgive me. It's cruel but fact. Serious, I did call Chan Fong after divorce n complaint to him regard this. He say not under his control. Hahahahahaha! My experience let me know just follow math n science.

As now I just plan pay to play, why I can't go for what I want please!?

I didn't cheat at all. I didn't play for free at all. I didn't have a bad idea on any girl. It's a deal.

My advice to K is don't waste time sweet talk here n there! Why not work hard get money enjoy the best!

A second of the girl don't like u just ask them fcuk off. The best is job not complete payment not ready!

Please dont waste ur time think girl like u because u handsome or what ever.....try ride motor n pick them.....101% they not turn out for u!

All about money! Cruel but fact! Like it or not, this is life.

Not sure, but likely that's how she feel - insecure. But likely still a firm NO for now. Since then, we have not been contacting and may be a good "reset" of everything.

I believe if it's meant to be, it will be. I'm trying to accept the rejection but it takes time to move on, really.

wow, you finalised your divorce so fast since your initial post.

i wish you good luck in your future search for a new partner.

good that your divorce was not messy despite no kids.

Damn bro.

Sorry for your loss, but it's great you move on.

Time to hit the gym and run 21.

Eat clean and become THE eye candy

Also, try to spend your night at the mamak and study there to learn all about trading so you don't get triggered by cues reminding about your ex-waifu.

#StayHard

Move on bro.....i got divorced last yr when i was 46 married for 3 yrs, dated for 2 yrs. This yr im 47..... life nvr felt better..... yes im in the same boat like u i dont have kids..... my ex wife was a thai national. Once i obtained the official divorce papers.... i got on to dating apps.... and meet a few girlsss.... mostly hits and misses.....i didnt give up and keep moving on....downloaded Bumble, CMB, tinder, Boo, FB dating.... and one fine day i got to meet a fine lady also a divorcee and without kids, we r bf and gf now n life is amazing..... shes 37........ so my advise to u is nvr give up and keep exploring..... if a girl is not suitable for u n u had tried all u can to save the relationship then just break it off..... i thank god i had the courage to called it off n move on in my previous marriage..... can't imagine if im still with my ex wife........ both are suffering and suffocating everyday.....