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Advice Wanted Marriage advice needed, Divorce or reconcile

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Cubalagi
post Dec 7 2024, 09:25 AM

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You are in ur late 30s, what about her? Late 30s as well?

2 years marriage not conceive yet..hv both of u done fertility test?





Cubalagi
post Dec 7 2024, 11:25 AM

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QUOTE(pkn_jet @ Dec 7 2024, 09:41 AM)
Yes she is in her mid 30s too.. and no we have not done any fertility test.

I know a women can still conceive at her age but there will always be risk.  I feel it’s abit too late now. 

Anyway, like I said having children together is no longer in the picture.  If so, I do not know how to continue with this marriage.
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Its not too late but u guys should do fertility test (both of u).

Imagine if u divorce for not wanting kids but one or both of you actually hv fertility problems.

Maybe this should be a first step.




Cubalagi
post Dec 7 2024, 11:27 AM

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QUOTE(pkn_jet @ Dec 7 2024, 11:02 AM)
With the current situation, i reckon having children (if lucky) will turn from bad to worst as my partner does not have the intention to have kids.  Even after we welcome the kids, anything happened sure will backfired and blame will be put on each other, and it all back to square one. 

By then, a divorce may make more difficult particularly on the children custody, etc. 

So the discussion to sit down, talk and discuss on family planning is not a viable option.
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U seem to have made up your mind here.


Cubalagi
post May 23 2025, 09:11 PM

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QUOTE(pkn_jet @ May 23 2025, 04:35 PM)
No bro.. We dont have any joint asset and its a mutual divorce petition.  So things are quite easy and straight forward.

Just waiting to attend the court hearing next month and then get the official divorce court order, and its official.
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When I was at your stage of my divorce, I got myself a sugar baby. Very much younger. My sb did help a lot in my rebound process.

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