Anyway what i think is you still have a very high chances of courting here. Just dat you have to give much more time in this relationship. girls are very slow warming up to relationship. They will only feel the love scent after months and months of being good friend with you first. Just dont ever confess that you like or love her, holding her hands or shites that might expose you up. Just wait for a VERY CLEAR signal from her that even idiots can interprets and knows she's into you already. Some hint: If you yourself get some hints but still not sure and wondering is she for real or shes just flirting then i suggest DONT confess. Coz you might get fukked up.

And for elephant... Courting girl is an art form, if you just wanna get laid/couple with girls among the bottom or middle of the food chain, you dont have just to follow my procedure and advice, you langgar all and still probably have some high chances of success.

But if you wanna target girls at the top of the foodchain among girls(the prettiest, sexiest, cutest), theres protocols and technique that we need to follow in order to be succesful. Succes for my term doesnt just mean we'll get to be couple with the girl we like. Success to me is courting the girls, get her to be our half and not be in emotional and mental depression, lose all our money and even in debt just to maintain our lovely girls :-" .

seriously, i wonder how can u like someone that u barely know? did u like her bcos of her look?

hahhaa
come on la fren
easier said than done

are u really u mean wht u said ?

just make sure not only u eye is open up wide
but ur brain and heart also

why not try ask her wht her bf will think he bring u back home and decorate his room?
shld also ask why she not ask her bf help
but ask u ?

sometime when they argue with bf they take this opportunity to make the bf angry. hope this is not the case lor

TS, does your target stay with parents or on her own?  How come you can always be in her room?  Please do not censor anything that you did in her room as if you do that then we will not be able to help you analyse the situation better.       

Hmmm......interesting fact that the girl actually let you into her room and be together with you alone.  This kind of girls worry me a lot especially when she is not my girl and she knows that I want to tackle her.  Anyway, this is just my 2 cents.

GG.com.......

u are on the correct path to success/failure 50- 50 %
u got notthing to loose

if u got her u got one more burden
if u loose her u still got many gils out there
remember one thing
when she accept u
make sure she 100 % break off with her BF
we all here dun wan u kena beat up ok

hello SphinxVille, i've spent about an hour reading from pg 1 to the current pg 19... all i could say is that, very interesting & i'm totally impressed by what you did.

simply awesome, mate! for sure, don't feel down, you did your best... perhaps you really did feel that you could be better than her ex or her current bf... never know, but i'm sure you did a lot of effort & sacrifice for her...

that's how a true guy should behave to impress a girl, not pretentious... shameful she didn't pick you. somehow i find it tough to really truly understand what a girl wants... refer to the movie What A Girl Wants, will really picture it.

i've had this experience before, perhaps i've posted to this LYN cupid's corner before, & i would really admit i weren't as patience as you... really too rushy to confess to the girl i like & ruined it.

maybe i'll need to learn from you, mate... ahaha.

whatever it is, just remain positive & confident in life, the ocean's always full of fishes... plus, you never know that there might be better girls out there... life is full of colours, wonders & by mixing them up, you get them in rainbow effects! voila!

i believe this thread is even more interesting than any fan fiction or novels or TV dramas whatsoever... plus with your updates, that really tempted all readers... as someone has said in this thread 'we're all trying to hope for you that this will work out as this will make 2 persons in the world less lonely'

hope you have a good time... for now, it's Happy X'mas & Merry New Year!
cheers...
Regards,
Shu.

She looks like she wanted attention, but that was not given by her bf, then u came along and the stories goes...