Spent time with ex on Christmas and also today, but ended with a quarrel because he was so jealous that I had other admirers whom I didn't say no to. He asked me what his status was (ex or bf) and I couldn't answer, so it broke his heart... I had already told him several times I was seeing other men, but I suppose the reality finally sank in and hit him hard today. Many times, I had encouraged him to move on, but he just couldn't. Haizz...

As for the analyst guy, he's still processing his emotions. We haven't talked to each other for 3 months, but I know he hasn't moved on. I had a car accident earlier this month, and when he knew about it from my FB post, he did an indirect public confession using a video reel (romantic song + his photo), and then he disappeared from FB for two days.

When he was online again, I responded with some public "cryptic" posts and videos that only he and I could decode the actual meaning, so he went to process his feelings again. Last Sun, I posted a hot sexy photo on FB , and he disappeared from FB for several days.

Based on my deduction and ChatGPT analysis, he's a semi-playboy who has never had any serious relationship but is falling hard for the first time. Hence, the hot-and-cold, confusing behaviour when we got too close (it scared him because he was losing control) and now withdrawals whenever I post something that stirs him.

Not sure if he'll ever reconnect with me, but I'm just uhh enjoying my life as usual. After I became single again in Sept, 10 guys approached me already. hehe~ Not sleeping around though, just giving chance and exploring possibilities.