Tattoo (subjective to which part of body) is okay for me. Light or no make up. Dress to attract male? I believe all males attracted to revealing clothes. It depends on what type of man you intend to attract?

Would a man okay for his lady to wear as such? Well it's subjective... For my lady to please the eyes of other men and let them fantasize, it's a big no. "If anyone can have it, I don't want it..." I live with this rule in romance relationship. Some prefer to have the world, some prefer to be the world of one particular special one.

Just do whatever you want as long as you are happy, no validation nor approval required. After all, we live in our own universe, reality, value...

1. One or 2 small ones is ok but not on face, neck, arms.

2. A short dress and high heels please.

Chii like dress 6, normal enough yet sexy and confident.
Also men say they don’t like make up. Don’t believe that because most of us encounter shit / lame make up from most girls as they are not professionals.

Refer back to those make up done for professionals for weddings, events, concert or photoshoot sessions. Those make up are what men really want but don’t know they need it. Many don’t know that those tvb / korean / japanese artists have good make up on them. If artists don’t make up, you cannot recognize them on the streets.

Also if your face is pretty, light make up or normal good make up should be very good.

Btw, why u have to reveal u abit curvy, my visualization of you now exploded. Chii thought u were like fan bing bing at her peak condition….

Ive my preferences and change from time to time
If she doesnt fulfill what i thought to be, thats ok cause its her life if she chose to not dress properly, at all.

Yeah, I've come to think that men are okay with makeup that looks more natural + done in moderation, not excessively.

Haha... sorry to burst your bubbles. In my teenage and young adult years, I used to be tall and skinny like a model, with obvious collar bones but flat boobs and butts.

After stepping into my thirties, my body changed to become more like Jennifer Lopez; more to see, touch, hold and grab-- according to ex and some other guys-- and don't have to worry about breaking my bones. LOL

Unexpectedly, my new body shape attracted another group of men.



In my younger days, I used to get honked by cars. Then, when I looked up, those drivers (usually Chinese males) would wave at me and say "hi, 美女 (pretty girl)".

The funniest happened during my high school, when I was walking along the road with my classmate. There was a kancil that sped past us, but suddenly it reversed on the road. We felt it was odd, so we looked at it. The driver reversed his car, parked next to us, wound down his window, and said, "Hi, xiao jie (miss). You look so pretty. Can I have your phone number?"

Walao eh, I blushed on the spot while my classmate laughed non-stop. I still remember this vividly until today.

So yeah, different body shapes attract different men. LOL

Gaylou are usually women's BFFs. Hahahaha


Day look, when go paktor


Evening look, when go for dinner


Gown, for events. I loveee wine red a lot.


Clubbing. I love bling blings and need something short so that I can dance as much as I like.


+ wear some of those clubbing outfits that I shared earlier.

I love dancing and singing a lot. So fun.



This post has been edited by Ralna: Sep 30 2024, 03:39 PM

You mean like this?

Noooo hahaha

Obviously the octopus is gonna swallow something.

Not my type of kink.

Certain place is nice but if too much then it'll become very heavy to look at

Wah similar style as my wife

So do you post your dance moves on tiktok?

Eh eh, do la

Then imagine when its unveiled to mr. shy guy

haha yeah, both like to wake up late, are feminine, and wear flowery chiffon dresses.

I don't mind dancing on stage, but to broadcast online is another level.
Maybe when I'm more confident, I will do so. Already posting singing videos anyway on my FB. haha

Mr. Shy guy will get the shock of his life. Don't scare a v like that la. Bad bad

This post has been edited by Ralna: Sep 30 2024, 04:17 PM

its simple...tattoo guys only like tattoo girls

Tattoo itself is a really nice art.

However from the perceptive of energy field, when tattoo are painted on human skin it either pull the person up or pull the person down.

Tattoo with positive energy get you to better levels of life or at least wouldn't do harm to your life.

Tattoo of wild animals, or weird shapes could associate some kind of dark energy that gradually affect your mind body and soul, as time go on.

If you love tattoos,
Suggest may do some reference to artistic tattoos on hands, legs from Indian ladies?

Just some 2 cents.




This post has been edited by Life_House: Sep 30 2024, 09:02 PM

not on the face

Interesting input. Thanks for sharing. ^^

I'm not getting new tattoos; will just use tattoo stickers for fun body decor.

This post has been edited by Ralna: Sep 30 2024, 10:55 PM

Same here.

Hanging out with swimmers and triathletes. Zero makeup.
Ladies attire mostly sportwear. A lot wake up at 5AM during weekends to train suspect no clubbing as well 🤭

Just back from Perhentian race, only the female workers at resorts wear makeup on the entire island.

George Carlin:



This post has been edited by Hoka Nobasho: Oct 3 2024, 12:50 AM

let me be honest here, God already created you a perfect human being, why wanna taint it with inks?

for me it just plain fugly

I prefer girl around 21!!!

Small one why not, it's an art