Standard like how u go with GF, i book flight and hotel + food most likely, thats about it. Maybe will create another thread to talk about my Jpn trip as a blog.

Btw anywhere to suggest where to go to have some unique "fun" in Jpn?

Their love hotel?

she's from kinda well to do family and sugar baby.. doesnt seem to add up

Ya love hotel but those not comfy so only planning to "experience and experiment"
Family rich not her

Standard like how u go with GF, i book flight and hotel + food most likely, thats about it. Maybe will create another thread to talk about my Jpn trip as a blog.

Btw anywhere to suggest where to go to have some unique "fun" in Jpn?

16 years old younger than you, and a college girl. I assume you're in your mid 30s? College age usually 18-21 ish, diploma student.

30s and go sugarbook, then get a teenage or early 20s girl who's into older man.

Now that she been treating you well, and you kind of confused about the next step.

If she's decent then why not? Assuming you did pretty well for yourself, got a house maybe or probably a small business.

Dont think it will last, esp. for someone at her age where plenty of life changes ahead. She might meet new people, relocate to new places, have new priorities etc. For me i would say just enjoy the moment but always remind yourself to have realistic expectations.

Maybe youre right. I am using the platform for matchmaking and not sugar dating . The thing about these platform is that there is always better choice and prettier girls. How do i control the temptation.

Not trying to advertise anyone, but recently tantan is loaded with crazy hot babes. Now i am tempted. I know is not right, but how should i get away and what should i do?

I am not chatting up with new girls just the previous older matches before i get with my girl. Since a lot of the people here told me that just enjoy what I have with my current girl. Should i have contingency plan?

Taking your post from Ralna's thread here as I feel it's more relevant here...
Our human brain will react to stimuli and sometimes, those reactions aren't "the right things" -- they're basically your impulses or "evil temptations". The best you can do is to minimise such stimuli by reducing the potential triggers;
1. Tell your existing matches, "sorry, I am currently committed to one girl so I don't want to continue leading you on for now. Bye"
2. Uninstall the apps

Simple isn't it? But here in this thread, you've implied that you're NOT looking to commit. It sounds contradictory because on the other thread, you said you want a "serious relationship". So think again what do you really want?
- polygamy/open relationships with several ladies?
- one committed relationship with your current sugar baby? (i.e. change to bf/gf relationship)
- maybe all this while you don't want to commit because you feel that she isn't someone you can settle down with? Why not?

Whatever you decide, I think you should clarify with the girl, otherwise it will be considered unfaithful/cheating/leading one on if you both have different expectations for your relationship.

You reacted to such level of bait? It is the works of the an internet marketer.

A person with the lust for younger girl trying to get more ppl to same app to compete with his activity make any sense? No right - it will not benefits him at all with the competition. Ppl already given him advise or advise , yet he still goes around boasting his success story of getting younger girl = marketer selling the result.

On which platform ? Specifically mentioned the specific platform over & over again = promoting the platform. It is indirect way of a internet marketer doing their promotion.

K's do not give him the quality / target market he wanted. He moved it to serious section- the serious section also didn't give him the target market he wanted. He moved it to this segment, the ideal platform because there are readers with emotional weakness ready to be exploited.

Lust + greed is the lowest form emotional exploit, with the best success rate. Majority will falls.

The next easy to exploit is the scarcity of "love", that is why the love scam is so rampant.

Read what is hidden.

Yeah I agree, but of coz i hope this will last. Trying to adapt to her changes and be there for now for now. Anyone else have any advice on dating younger girls esp when youre middle age vs college girl

Taking your post from Ralna's thread here as I feel it's more relevant here...
Our human brain will react to stimuli and sometimes, those reactions aren't "the right things" -- they're basically your impulses or "evil temptations". The best you can do is to minimise such stimuli by reducing the potential triggers;
1. Tell your existing matches, "sorry, I am currently committed to one girl so I don't want to continue leading you on for now. Bye"
2. Uninstall the apps

Simple isn't it? But here in this thread, you've implied that you're NOT looking to commit. It sounds contradictory because on the other thread, you said you want a "serious relationship". So think again what do you really want?
- polygamy/open relationships with several ladies?
- one committed relationship with your current sugar baby? (i.e. change to bf/gf relationship)
- maybe all this while you don't want to commit because you feel that she isn't someone you can settle down with? Why not?

Whatever you decide, I think you should clarify with the girl, otherwise it will be considered unfaithful/cheating/leading one on if you both have different expectations for your relationship.

You reacted to such level of bait? It is the works of the an internet marketer.

A person with the lust for younger girl trying to get more ppl to same app to compete with his activity make any sense? No right - it will not benefits him at all with the competition. Ppl already given him advise or advise , yet he still goes around boasting his success story of getting younger girl = marketer selling the result.

On which platform ? Specifically mentioned the specific platform over & over again = promoting the platform. It is indirect way of a internet marketer doing their promotion.

K's do not give him the quality / target market he wanted. He moved it to serious section- the serious section also didn't give him the target market he wanted. He moved it to this segment, the ideal platform because there are readers with emotional weakness ready to be exploited.

Lust + greed is the lowest form emotional exploit, with the best success rate. Majority will falls.

The next easy to exploit is the scarcity of "love", that is why the love scam is so rampant.

Read what is hidden.

Aiya... Usually I can catch trolls by copy pasted text or low effort posts, this time didn't trigger my alarm haha. Oh well I'll just leave it there..

I think you're doing the best already. One thing is that you seemed to not know really what you actually want. A serious relationship? If so, don't think of getting another SB or flirting with other girls. Maybe not now, but some time later you'll need to make a decision to commit as serious BF/GF relationship.  On dating significantly younger partner, it's always the the usual advice..be interested in their interests and hobbies..

So recently I have been trying out sugar dating. Like from my previous post in kopitiam (a lot of weird reply) so here I am trying to get best logical answer here (hopefully)

Backstory

I have been trying this sugar dating platform la coz seen the ads ma. Then met a few but nothing of them ngam except for this sweet young thing who is bout 16 years younger than me a college girl, cute petite and nice body. On our first meeting, I was busy right after the meeting (kinda working halfway) and im quite keen with her la. Told her I would love to meet her again for movie and makan first (hopefully to build the chemistry first before anything). Right after I said that she look disappointed, my first thought was "I think she was hoping to get fast cash" so was disappointed in the end.

Right after she cabut and I continue my work, I got her message saying she thought can meet me privately, hinting for "ahem" then I told her lo I might not be the daddy youre looking for. Coz I am not as wealthy as 20k ktards level. to my surprise she reply me with "I prefer mentorship and companionship and she like older guys" wow....

so long story short we met and ahem ahem, she treat me like a bf after that. Apart from dating meals, she get me meds when I am sick. took care of me like real gf, and her sugarbook account is no longer active.

So my question is, can this kind of relationship lasts? should I put my heart into it?

Albeit she is kinda childish at times, but still within the tolerable range la. Other than that all ok, and she's from kinda well to do family