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 Falling for my sugar baby, not just one

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Takudan
post Oct 7 2024, 06:12 PM

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Taking your post from Ralna's thread here as I feel it's more relevant here...

QUOTE(MCBFUHO @ Oct 7 2024, 09:49 AM)
Maybe youre right. I am using the platform for matchmaking and not sugar dating smile.gif. The thing about these platform is that there is always better choice and prettier girls. How do i control the temptation.

Not trying to advertise anyone, but recently tantan is loaded with crazy hot babes. Now i am tempted. I know is not right, but how should i get away and what should i do?

I am not chatting up with new girls just the previous older matches before i get with my girl. Since a lot of the people here told me that just enjoy what I have with my current girl. Should i have contingency plan?
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Our human brain will react to stimuli and sometimes, those reactions aren't "the right things" -- they're basically your impulses or "evil temptations". The best you can do is to minimise such stimuli by reducing the potential triggers;
1. Tell your existing matches, "sorry, I am currently committed to one girl so I don't want to continue leading you on for now. Bye"
2. Uninstall the apps

Simple isn't it? But here in this thread, you've implied that you're NOT looking to commit. It sounds contradictory because on the other thread, you said you want a "serious relationship". So think again what do you really want?
- polygamy/open relationships with several ladies?
- one committed relationship with your current sugar baby? (i.e. change to bf/gf relationship)
- maybe all this while you don't want to commit because you feel that she isn't someone you can settle down with? Why not?

Whatever you decide, I think you should clarify with the girl, otherwise it will be considered unfaithful/cheating/leading one on if you both have different expectations for your relationship.
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post Oct 8 2024, 12:36 AM

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QUOTE(nihility @ Oct 7 2024, 10:40 PM)
You reacted to such level of bait? It is the works of the an internet marketer.

A person with the lust for younger girl trying to get more ppl to same app to compete with his activity make any sense? No right - it will not benefits him at all with the competition. Ppl already given him advise or advise , yet he still goes around boasting his success story of getting younger girl = marketer selling the result.

On which platform ? Specifically mentioned the specific platform over & over again = promoting the platform. It is indirect way of a internet marketer doing their promotion.

K's do not give him the quality / target market he wanted. He moved it to serious section- the serious section also didn't give him the target market he wanted. He moved it to this segment, the ideal platform because there are readers with emotional weakness ready to be exploited.

Lust + greed is the lowest form emotional exploit, with the best success rate. Majority will falls.

The next easy to exploit is the scarcity of "love", that is why the love scam is so rampant.

Read what is hidden.
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Aiya... Usually I can catch trolls by copy pasted text or low effort posts, this time didn't trigger my alarm haha. Oh well I'll just leave it there..

 

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