So recently I have been trying out sugar dating. Like from my previous post in kopitiam (a lot of weird reply) so here I am trying to get best logical answer here (hopefully)

Backstory

I have been trying this sugar dating platform la coz seen the ads ma. Then met a few but nothing of them ngam except for this sweet young thing who is bout 16 years younger than me a college girl, cute petite and nice body. On our first meeting, I was busy right after the meeting (kinda working halfway) and im quite keen with her la. Told her I would love to meet her again for movie and makan first (hopefully to build the chemistry first before anything). Right after I said that she look disappointed, my first thought was "I think she was hoping to get fast cash" so was disappointed in the end.

Right after she cabut and I continue my work, I got her message saying she thought can meet me privately, hinting for "ahem" then I told her lo I might not be the daddy youre looking for. Coz I am not as wealthy as 20k ktards level. to my surprise she reply me with "I prefer mentorship and companionship and she like older guys" wow....

so long story short we met and ahem ahem, she treat me like a bf after that. Apart from dating meals, she get me meds when I am sick. took care of me like real gf, and her sugarbook account is no longer active.

So my question is, can this kind of relationship lasts? should I put my heart into it?

Albeit she is kinda childish at times, but still within the tolerable range la. Other than that all ok, and she's from kinda well to do family

Thanks for reminding them, the reason why I move here is to avoid kopitiam replies.

I am not ultra rich la, normal SME senior manager. But she seem true hahaha

True geh but often time I check, her face not found. 404. Actually im the naughty one, who's still going to the site flirting lol

less than 500 to date, only meals and 1 movie outing

LOL DUDEEEEE say jo = no say

Great idea let's see see, but so far my house nothing special. Cheapo loft house. Messy bachelor pad also she ok

I dont have much and she knows about it, sort of hinting her that I am not sugar daddy quality rich.

ahem ad, young girls is of different league lol drain me out... she knows I have no assets lol

Thanks for the encouragement bro, yeah I notice young male nowadays. Dont even know how to man up

True that, now trying to enjoy as much as I can. But I tell you, young girls nowadays really drain you up like crazy. I wonder how older man lasts. Medication?

Yup im strong and fit in fact im a multi sport coach/instructor on the side. Btw bro how u keep up with younger girls, if you get what I mean. Meds? or just because youre fit? mine is quite demanding and she's into some rough play.

What bout your story bro lai lai tell more, my first time dating a sugar baby. hahaha not sure if she's consider sugar baby or not now lol

I am not paying her every month a fixed amount la but on n off I give her few hundred like last week I was not free I told her go have fun on weekend. Go movie or something I transfer 500 to her. Else I will bring her out then no money. Consider sugar baby or not like that?

THATTSSSS the thing, actually there is another girl quite close to me hahaha, thinking to have 1 more. Am I an axehol for having more than 1?

Dont think so coz I know. dont ask me why I know. Is just my job to know haha

True that thanks!!


So far still ok, I "tie her down" most of the time. Young girls nowadays are into "it"

Now is wild wild exciting time still la, quite happy with that. Future not sure, yet. Just wondering if anyone here have experience of bringing this beyond sweet period or not

Haha i guess so if such the case

I feel marriage is the biggest scam and the law protects them

hehe true that. We flying to Jpn next week wee~~~

Standard like how u go with GF, i book flight and hotel + food most likely, thats about it. Maybe will create another thread to talk about my Jpn trip as a blog.

Btw anywhere to suggest where to go to have some unique "fun" in Jpn?

Ya love hotel but those not comfy so only planning to "experience and experiment"

Family rich not her

I am in my early 40s, shes ok but with normal young girls immaturity which i can handle. Yes i am pretty well

Yeah I agree, but of coz i hope this will last. Trying to adapt to her changes and be there for now for now. Anyone else have any advice on dating younger girls esp when youre middle age vs college girl

Oh well, shall leave it there then since you guys think this is what i am doing

Will do so thanks for the advice, shall refrain some commenting here since getting more opinion will be deem as marketer

Thanks for the reply!