So recently I have been trying out sugar dating. Like from my previous post in kopitiam (a lot of weird reply) so here I am trying to get best logical answer here (hopefully)

Backstory

I have been trying this sugar dating platform la coz seen the ads ma. Then met a few but nothing of them ngam except for this sweet young thing who is bout 16 years younger than me a college girl, cute petite and nice body. On our first meeting, I was busy right after the meeting (kinda working halfway) and im quite keen with her la. Told her I would love to meet her again for movie and makan first (hopefully to build the chemistry first before anything). Right after I said that she look disappointed, my first thought was "I think she was hoping to get fast cash" so was disappointed in the end.

Right after she cabut and I continue my work, I got her message saying she thought can meet me privately, hinting for "ahem" then I told her lo I might not be the daddy youre looking for. Coz I am not as wealthy as 20k ktards level. to my surprise she reply me with "I prefer mentorship and companionship and she like older guys" wow....

so long story short we met and ahem ahem, she treat me like a bf after that. Apart from dating meals, she get me meds when I am sick. took care of me like real gf, and her sugarbook account is no longer active.

So my question is, can this kind of relationship lasts? should I put my heart into it?

Albeit she is kinda childish at times, but still within the tolerable range la. Other than that all ok, and she's from kinda well to do family

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This post has been edited by empstar2: Sep 17 2024, 02:14 PM

reminder: not kopitiam

Thanks for reminding them, the reason why I move here is to avoid kopitiam replies.

this kinda of relationship is based on only 1 thing => cash... you think someone 16 years younger would fall for you? Be a bit realistic... They are here for the moneh..

can make multiple accs no?
all the best for your new-found companionship

How much you spend on her?

I am not ultra rich la, normal SME senior manager. But she seem true hahaha

True geh but often time I check, her face not found. 404. Actually im the naughty one, who's still going to the site flirting lol

less than 500 to date, only meals and 1 movie outing

chinese said, starting is wrong, confirm no ending point

new era explain, as long as, nothing to lose, just continue

LOL DUDEEEEE say jo = no say

You want to test very easy. One of these days being her go jalan2 in the park, go kopitiam, give her economy rice. Do it few times.

See if she cabut. If 3rd time don't cabut, can be keeper.

Great idea let's see see, but so far my house nothing special. Cheapo loft house. Messy bachelor pad also she ok

She is interested in the cash in your bank account.

untung la if ady ahem....

but yeah...most of the time is want your money only

did she know u ady have any assets?

I dont have much and she knows about it, sort of hinting her that I am not sugar daddy quality rich.

ahem ad, young girls is of different league lol drain me out... she knows I have no assets lol

dont think so much

just enjoy the relationship, u never know, it may just work out

16 years difference is just a number, I can see why young girls nowadays prefer older man, young male nowadays....

all the best in your new found relationship

All the best bro .... don't think so much, just enjoy the ride. And if the ride ends, at least you have good memories.

TS

I second the good doctor. Uni students usually wont really know what they want yet. So don't t you go crazy and put too much hope long term. Be prepared to let go, if necessary. But do enjoy the moment.

As for age difference, its not that big a deal. My gf is 17 years younger and we have been a couple for abt 2.5 years.

So here is a tip to attract/keep much younger women. Be healthy, fit and strong.

Thanks for the encouragement bro, yeah I notice young male nowadays. Dont even know how to man up

True that, now trying to enjoy as much as I can. But I tell you, young girls nowadays really drain you up like crazy. I wonder how older man lasts. Medication?

Yup im strong and fit in fact im a multi sport coach/instructor on the side. Btw bro how u keep up with younger girls, if you get what I mean. Meds? or just because youre fit? mine is quite demanding and she's into some rough play.

Oh another sugarbook story, maybe perhaps I'll share mine later today