How to move on from someone we have attachment/love/like to. Dont said those generic like. Dont know how long gonna go on like this. All this years depress due to loneliness. Now depress due to love even though got someone being so nice and already with me so long but have no feel to her yet gaslighting her. My feeling to her is more caring own families rather than love

-Delete photos(I can't do it as i know i might never see her again so photo is very precious)
-Keep ourself busy, go gym. Tried it but it just a cover. When night comes basically cant sleep cause when mind empty, all sort of though/memories rushing into my head instead

I know the feeling might fade but i also know it will never go away.

This post has been edited by kesvani: Sep 11 2024, 11:03 PM

Recently divorced?

Ex having baby

Go out meet friends

treat yourself better. invest in yourself more. at the moment it will be tough but time will heal. i'm going through this as well now. keep yourself busy. as long as you utilize your day well, trust me reach home terus tidur

Wat the…having bb edi u still can’t let go.

This third. First and second age 7 and 5

U are not really missing her. U are missing the s3x.
Go out find another girl and it will solve your problem. Impossible your ex 3 kids u still thinking about her.

Now I still living with my old Ex and we still have sex. So lack of sex?. Nope. Why I missing her I also dont know

wth, weird lh... she working? take leave lh stay with her longer until no missing...

Bro, you are itchy (Playboy) type! Last, please dont married!

Whose baby? Ur baby?

Not mine lah.

So u break up with her, she got a new guy and got herself a baby and you still cant foget her?

Is that the story?

KNN guess so accurate better go become tukang tilik

Bro, I've been following your story on & off for a while now ... this is a latest development of sorts and I must have missed the pivotal moment when you found out. My commiserations ... I'm sure you didn't want it to end that way.

What you mean latest development.

Just wondering why my whole life my i can only happy for awhile like all those happy moment never satisfy me me enough although i know am very lucky compare with those out there like no one can brag ever sleep in 4 star hotel for 1month, having very special love journey and can say movie or book worthy already, one kind of company i join etc...

You are still in the search for your life purpose (you are directionless at the moment). 2ndly, you are overstaying at the certain phase of life & that phase of life no longer give you any life progression.

The life purpose can be your long term goal. It will requires commitment in time & dedication. Why are you so afraid toward such commitment? Scare of making wrong choice? scare it is too hard & failed halfway?

Overstaying at your life phase - imagine yourself playing a video game. You pass all the levels with your eye closed, will you not feel bored & feel you are wasting your time? Bring this analogy to your life, answer can found at your within yourself & your surrounding.

Life process is simple, if you made a wrong choice/decision in your life = you will suffers. You need to spend time to rectify the bad decision made & you will loose the "time" of your life or resources that you made from your time.

If you made a good choice/ decision in your life = you will flourish. You will use less time & resources to move to next level.

"The journey to heaven feels like a hell, the journey to the hell feels like a heaven."

This post has been edited by nihility: Sep 22 2024, 03:36 PM

Almost same like me... i am not sure what am i missing. I have everything, car, house, financial independence, a son, (divorced mutually), travel overseas anytime but still i am not happy.

My suspect is i still cannot get over my 1st one (12yrs and broke cos LDR is hard and i met and get entangled with one and pregnant, married then D)

Married due to pregnant seems unlikely to last. Thats why I told my Ex to abort when she pregnant.

Curious how old are you. You seems kinda well off people.