You are still in the search for your life purpose (you are directionless at the moment). 2ndly, you are overstaying at the certain phase of life & that phase of life no longer give you any life progression.

The life purpose can be your long term goal. It will requires commitment in time & dedication. Why are you so afraid toward such commitment? Scare of making wrong choice? scare it is too hard & failed halfway?

Overstaying at your life phase - imagine yourself playing a video game. You pass all the levels with your eye closed, will you not feel bored & feel you are wasting your time? Bring this analogy to your life, answer can found at your within yourself & your surrounding.

Life process is simple, if you made a wrong choice/decision in your life = you will suffers. You need to spend time to rectify the bad decision made & you will loose the "time" of your life or resources that you made from your time.

If you made a good choice/ decision in your life = you will flourish. You will use less time & resources to move to next level.

"The journey to heaven feels like a hell, the journey to the hell feels like a heaven."

This post has been edited by nihility: Sep 22 2024, 03:36 PM

Your purpose of life, no one is able to answer to you other than yourself. By far, the easiest & most systematic way of finding the answer I ever come across is the Japanese's concept of Ikigai.

The convergence of ikigai's four primary elements: what you love (your passion), what the world needs (your mission), what you are good at (your vocation), and what you can get paid for (your profession).

How to progress to next phase? I think the answer can be found on the previous phase of life before. For instance, before you enter the work force, you go to school to learn first. Hence, before you move to next phase of life, you need to learn the what is expected at the next phase of life. It is a repeated process but at different level of difficulty.

You want to tell more about yourself on this matter? Your relationship with your parent ? their treatment to you ? Any grandparent living with you since you are young?

(* reply at your leisure time only - forum activity should be least priority in one daily to do list).

This post has been edited by nihility: Oct 14 2024, 08:05 AM