Recently divorced?

Wat the…having bb edi u still can’t let go.

U are not really missing her. U are missing the s3x.
Go out find another girl and it will solve your problem. Impossible your ex 3 kids u still thinking about her.

Whose baby? Ur baby?

So u break up with her, she got a new guy and got herself a baby and you still cant foget her?

Is that the story?

Bro, I've been following your story on & off for a while now ... this is a latest development of sorts and I must have missed the pivotal moment when you found out. My commiserations ... I'm sure you didn't want it to end that way.

Almost same like me... i am not sure what am i missing. I have everything, car, house, financial independence, a son, (divorced mutually), travel overseas anytime but still i am not happy.

My suspect is i still cannot get over my 1st one (12yrs and broke cos LDR is hard and i met and get entangled with one and pregnant, married then D)

You are still in the search for your life purpose (you are directionless at the moment). 2ndly, you are overstaying at the certain phase of life & that phase of life no longer give you any life progression.

The life purpose can be your long term goal. It will requires commitment in time & dedication. Why are you so afraid toward such commitment? Scare of making wrong choice? scare it is too hard & failed halfway?

Overstaying at your life phase - imagine yourself playing a video game. You pass all the levels with your eye closed, will you not feel bored & feel you are wasting your time? Bring this analogy to your life, answer can found at your within yourself & your surrounding. 

Life process is simple, if you made a wrong choice/decision in your life = you will suffers. You need to spend time to rectify the bad decision made & you will loose the "time" of your life or resources that you made from your time.

If you made a good choice/ decision in your life = you will flourish. You will use less time & resources to move to next level.

"The journey to heaven feels like a hell, the journey to the hell feels like a heaven."

Your purpose of life, no one is able to answer to you other than yourself. By far, the easiest & most systematic way of finding the answer I ever come across is the Japanese's concept of Ikigai.

The convergence of ikigai's four primary elements: what you love (your passion), what the world needs (your mission), what you are good at (your vocation), and what you can get paid for (your profession).

How to progress to next phase? I think the answer can be found on the previous phase of life before. For instance, before you enter the work force, you go to school to learn first. Hence, before you move to next phase of life, you need to learn the what is expected at the next phase of life. It is a repeated process but at different level of difficulty.

i am just into digit number 4. LOL.. old AF

you don't think it as moving on.

she will forever be part of you till the day you become dust.

Just accepts that she was a chapter of you and who you are today now.

is not going to be easy. is hard. very hard. cry it out once awhile. and smile to the love you once had.

I oso no delete.

Sometimes ter see then feelings up again haha

No hide. Berlambak photo in fon. Mau cari oso susah

will take time, maybe 1 year to 3 years it depends.

Baby could have been yours.
Some other dude beat you to it ?

in my case , just concentrate on my hobby things that i love to do .. it helps a lot

We remain as friend, but who knows one day we might be back together, as for me i dont put any high hope, just let it be natural

I think you can't get over her because you didn't own her.  Somehow people like something they cant have. Its like obsession.

Somehow one day, you will slowly get over, but still keep her deep inside your heart.

You broke up with your ex because argue on something or just broke peacefully ?
I bet 60% is argue on something