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 Why do people cheat?, why cannot break up or divorce first?

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hoonanoo
post Oct 22 2024, 12:21 PM

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QUOTE(adonhhk @ Aug 5 2024, 11:50 PM)
I am happily married, almost 10 years, don't understand why some people have to cheat?

If you really think it feels better to be with someone else, then just break up/divorce first, then you can be with someone else with no issue, right?

Why secretly cheat, sometimes for many years too? What is the logic?

Want to experience different feel with many partners at the same time? Don't be in a relationship then, just be a "player" with other consensual "players", nobody gets hurt and you can enjoy as many different partners as you want.

Or if want to be in "open" relationship, get your partner's consent first, then can date whoever you want, don't cheat after your partner rejected your "open" preference, just break up or divorce first, find someone else that shares your open idea, easy right?

I really don't understand the psychology of cheaters, makes no sense.

After exposed, they beg for forgiveness, cry like children.  rclxub.gif

Cheaters with kids even worse, why hurt your whole family like that? Just divorce first, say you no longer feel the same way, then date whoever you want, as long as you take care of your kids afterward.

Sometimes both have kids, still cheat with each other, ruin two families at same time, wtf?  rclxub.gif

I cannot understand these people, no logic at all.

Maybe it's like drug addiction, cannot stop once started, brain and body out of control?  rclxub.gif
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1) Some people when become very rich and successful, start drive ferrari and show off with rolex, lots of women will be attracted to them. So when they are atas status, they think they can do anything without consider the consequences.

2) Some people think the grass is greenier on other side. They become unrealistic expectations, thinkking they can find someone better than their wife.

3) Some people let looks deceive them, younger and prettier.

4) Some people take the most easy way to cheat their wives, go for pub and spend time with GRO even have one night stand with them. Some men believe that it is their right to have that one night stand then go back to their wives.


MishimaZ
post Oct 24 2024, 11:11 AM

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Can only say based on experience being cheated and also a cheater at some point of life. Men can only cheat when he has options, while women can cheat anytime with little repercussions. But that not necessary mean the cheater are not committing to other scopes of relationship, especially in marriages like providing to their kids etc.

Also, men tend to chase after physical connection which is easily severed but women tend to gravitate emotionally which is much harder to remove. Hence, there are reasons men tend to come back to their partners and carrying duties as normal, but women will show obvious signs of disconnecting physically and emotionally to their current partners. Its just simple biology why both genders react differently.

Affairs generally don't last long (like years) as chances to be exposed goes up over time but for those that really did, likely has both sides really have senseless partners that simply do not bother on their changes; and when people had committed emotionally to the affair. Those kind of committed affairs usually destroy marriages and have worse after effects on children.

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post Dec 3 2024, 09:35 AM

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post Dec 3 2024, 10:17 AM

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QUOTE(GamersFamilia @ Dec 3 2024, 09:35 AM)
cuz nobody's perfect
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No shit Sherlock
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post Dec 3 2024, 10:23 AM

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QUOTE(Takudan @ Dec 3 2024, 10:17 AM)
No shit Sherlock
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