If u r not why u bother to understand

If u r not why u bother to understand

I am happily married, almost 10 years, don't understand why some people have to cheat?

If you really think it feels better to be with someone else, then just break up/divorce first, then you can be with someone else with no issue, right?

Why secretly cheat, sometimes for many years too? What is the logic?

Want to experience different feel with many partners at the same time? Don't be in a relationship then, just be a "player" with other consensual "players", nobody gets hurt and you can enjoy as many different partners as you want.

Or if want to be in "open" relationship, get your partner's consent first, then can date whoever you want, don't cheat after your partner rejected your "open" preference, just break up or divorce first, find someone else that shares your open idea, easy right?

I really don't understand the psychology of cheaters, makes no sense.

After exposed, they beg for forgiveness, cry like children. 

Cheaters with kids even worse, why hurt your whole family like that? Just divorce first, say you no longer feel the same way, then date whoever you want, as long as you take care of your kids afterward.

Sometimes both have kids, still cheat with each other, ruin two families at same time, wtf? 

I cannot understand these people, no logic at all.

Maybe it's like drug addiction, cannot stop once started, brain and body out of control? 

85% percent reason for cheating is sex life. Like not having sex for a month.

Why people cheat according to divorce lawyer.
I can't post link, on probation, go search on youtube:
The Divorce Expert: 86% Of People Who Divorce Remarry! Why Sex Is Causing Divorces!

Will sexual preferences encourage ppl to cheat? Like if both partners' sexual preferences don't align? Like some ppl like to slowly sensually start with 4play while some when they are ready, just want to "poke". Will that be the cause of cheating / failure in a relationship?

Will sexual preferences encourage ppl to cheat? Like if both partners' sexual preferences don't align? Like some ppl like to slowly sensually start with 4play while some when they are ready, just want to "poke". Will that be the cause of cheating / failure in a relationship?

I am happily married, almost 10 years, don't understand why some people have to cheat?

Ultimately, people cheat because of selfish reasons, even if it could be justified.

Stress in life

Curhat 😆😆😆😆😆

Dont like that... I'm trying to give good life advise from my mistakes and at the same time earn 1 more star.

2 stars look noob

What mistake ?marry wrong women?

Immature in relationship

so now divorce?. You divorce her or vice versa. Immature very subjective and broad. What you mean. Share more bro. Ngapain hambar begitu balasnya

No la. I mean now I sharing my knowledge and lesson learnt from my past immature mistakes

So cannot restart again?We almost same age leh if not mistaken. What mistake. If both of you still together then its not a mistake