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post Jul 9 2024, 08:50 PM

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QUOTE(cocomaru @ Jul 9 2024, 06:32 PM)
I do not know if this is the correct place to ask, but please forgive me if it is.

I have trouble maintaining an erection with a condom on, but I have no trouble getting it back, so should I change condoms if the condom does not slip off of your penis or can I keep using it?
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get a bigger size. too tight later picah.
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post Jul 9 2024, 08:50 PM

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QUOTE(cocomaru @ Jul 9 2024, 08:38 PM)
I will try jogging more often, I exercise less because of my job but not impossible to make time for it.

I think she is sexually attractive, that's definitely not the problem haha
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Just jogging twice a week.. you will be suprise of the effect it has. And try to hold it when you feel that you are strong enough.. you will be even much stronger after a few weeks
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post Jul 9 2024, 09:13 PM

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QUOTE(cocomaru @ Jul 9 2024, 08:38 PM)
I will try jogging more often, I exercise less because of my job but not impossible to make time for it.

I think she is sexually attractive, that's definitely not the problem haha
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exercise often will keeps u better not just jogging
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post Jul 9 2024, 09:58 PM

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QUOTE(david5343 @ Jul 9 2024, 08:50 PM)
Just jogging twice a week.. you will be suprise of the effect it has. And try to hold it when you feel that you are strong enough.. you will be even much stronger after a few weeks
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I will try. How long should I jog minimum per day to see long term effect? 10 to 40 minutes?

Hold it? You mean not masturbating even if you have the urge?
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post Jul 9 2024, 10:04 PM

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have you tried diff condoms? is the one too thick until you cannot feel anything? or is it too tight until blood circulation cut off? 😂
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post Jul 9 2024, 10:31 PM

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either you have mental block during intercourse or try different condoms (esp thin ones)

had a friend who went cheong last time, he mentally stressed himself need to perform, then after few thrusts become limp then cannot get it up anymore
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QUOTE(cocomaru @ Jul 9 2024, 09:58 PM)
I will try. How long should I jog minimum per day to see long term effect? 10 to 40 minutes?

Hold it? You mean not masturbating even if you have the urge?
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No I mean hold it when you are going to cum.. just try to hold when you can. Up to the point that your partner has cum twice then only you shoot.

15 minutes is good enough for starter. Twice a week.. you will feel the effect after a week. Don't make love the same day after you jog though...

After that.. just 25minutes twice a week will keep you fit... I jog Monday and Friday, Wednesday I do strength to keep in good shape.
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QUOTE(Mr.Robert @ Jul 9 2024, 08:37 PM)
Seriously tongue.gif
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Of course... At least to me it is an important factor.. I cannot get hard looking at a beautiful land whale.
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post Jul 9 2024, 11:21 PM

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QUOTE(cocomaru @ Jul 9 2024, 06:57 PM)
I don't know if 2 to 5 times a week is considered too much, but sex or masturbation isn't on my mind most of the time

But when I have that feeling to do it, I never seem to be able to maintain the erection long enough to finish the job with a condom on while I'm with her.

I always buy the smallest size one, snug or close fit I think the label
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I believe u masturbate too much, thus without touch, u lose erection. Could also be mental issue, are u able to get erection without touching ur penis?
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post Jul 10 2024, 05:02 AM

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QUOTE(cocomaru @ Jul 9 2024, 06:49 PM)
It has been nothing but depressing on my end, I am in a relationship with my girlfriend, and I did it without a condom with her previously because she was on the pills

Then I asked her if she could just stop taking the pills because of the side effects, and I'll just try practice it with a condom.

Sometimes I get to finish it inside a condom, most of the time I don't because of loss of erection

I do not know if it is a mental thing or the age factor is creeping on me..but may I ask how did you manage to get over it?
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i can't offer advice on condom, but thanks for looking after her health.

those pills will cause long term side effects, and if you really love a lady, you will do physical changes than physiological changes.

hope you get your fun time back soon
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post Jul 10 2024, 05:46 AM

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And also practise safe sex.

Responsible not to give birth when not ready

Responsible man 🙏🏻
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post Jul 10 2024, 08:05 AM

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QUOTE(cocomaru @ Jul 9 2024, 06:49 PM)
It has been nothing but depressing on my end, I am in a relationship with my girlfriend, and I did it without a condom with her previously because she was on the pills

Then I asked her if she could just stop taking the pills because of the side effects, and I'll just try practice it with a condom.

Sometimes I get to finish it inside a condom, most of the time I don't because of loss of erection

I do not know if it is a mental thing or the age factor is creeping on me..but may I ask how did you manage to get over it?
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Once you go RAW.....you will always crave for it.
Unless of course your GF did you BBJ until almost kingdom cum, and then find the 0.01 condom with spiral dragon dotted and surely both of you will Xperience highest possible heavenly passion.

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post Jul 10 2024, 08:06 AM

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QUOTE(MakNok @ Jul 10 2024, 08:05 AM)
Once you go RAW.....you will always crave for it.
Unless of course your GF did you BBJ until almost kingdom cum, and then find the 0.01 condom with spiral dragon dotted and surely both of you will Xperience highest possible heavenly passion.
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QUOTE(pisces88 @ Jul 9 2024, 10:04 PM)
have you tried diff condoms? is the one too thick until you cannot feel anything? or is it too tight until blood circulation cut off? 😂
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Yes I have tried Durex, then some no name brands that I bought online, I have managed to finish it a few times with condom on, but most of the time I just lost erection halfway.

Not sure what too tight means, because I can still feel something with a condom on, it just does not feel as good as when I did it without a condom.

If by being too tight means that the condom is so small to the point where if I put it on my thing that it feels like it is going to smash it into bits, then no I have never felt like it is too tight.
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QUOTE(david5343 @ Jul 9 2024, 10:55 PM)
No I mean hold it when you are going to cum.. just try to hold when you can. Up to the point that your partner has cum twice then only you shoot.

15 minutes is good enough for starter. Twice a week.. you will feel the effect after a week. Don't make love the same day after you jog though...

After that.. just 25minutes twice a week will keep you fit... I jog Monday and Friday, Wednesday I do strength to keep in good shape.
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Oh I just understood what you mean, you mean edging. I have never tried that before.

But I'll try to follow your advice and see if there is any positive changes in 2 to 4 weeks time, then maybe I will update it on this post again haha
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QUOTE(annoymous1234 @ Jul 9 2024, 11:21 PM)
I believe u masturbate too much, thus without touch, u lose erection. Could also be mental issue, are u able to get erection without touching ur penis?
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Yes I am able to get erection without touching it, I usually fantasize about me in sexual situations at times when I could not sleep, and I always get erection when I do that.
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QUOTE(cocomaru @ Jul 9 2024, 06:49 PM)
It has been nothing but depressing on my end, I am in a relationship with my girlfriend, and I did it without a condom with her previously because she was on the pills

Then I asked her if she could just stop taking the pills because of the side effects, and I'll just try practice it with a condom.

Sometimes I get to finish it inside a condom, most of the time I don't because of loss of erection

I do not know if it is a mental thing or the age factor is creeping on me..but may I ask how did you manage to get over it?
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I didn't wear condom with my gf and she is my now wife. It's depend on how U control by pulling out.

This post has been edited by genjo: Jul 10 2024, 02:04 PM
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post Jul 10 2024, 03:58 PM

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QUOTE(genjo @ Jul 10 2024, 02:04 PM)
I didn't wear condom with my gf and she is my now wife. It's depend on how U control by pulling out.
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Did she become your waifu because your control was a bit serong and landing was all messed up because you couldn't pull up in time?
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post Jul 10 2024, 04:35 PM

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QUOTE(cocomaru @ Jul 10 2024, 01:56 PM)
Yes I am able to get erection without touching it, I usually fantasize about me in sexual situations at times when I could not sleep, and I always get erection when I do that.
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Definitely size wrong. Too tight or too loose will affect. Find a flexible measuring tape and measure girth (tebal, circumference). Then input into this calculator.

https://www.myonecondoms.com/pages/enter-my-measurements

Standard condom is 52mm wide. Durex XL is 56mm
Most Asian need snug fit or close fit which is 49mm. For me standard one was too tight so had to go bigger. I couldn't maintain when put on, too tight.
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post Jul 10 2024, 04:52 PM

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Try Japanese brand Okamoto. More Asian fit. Also have 001 super thin.

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