QUOTE(cocomaru @ Jul 9 2024, 06:49 PM)
It has been nothing but depressing on my end, I am in a relationship with my girlfriend, and I did it without a condom with her previously because she was on the pills
Then I asked her if she could just stop taking the pills because of the side effects, and I'll just try practice it with a condom.
Sometimes I get to finish it inside a condom, most of the time I don't because of loss of erection
I do not know if it is a mental thing or the age factor is creeping on me..but may I ask how did you manage to get over it?
Everything has effect on your thing.. mental is as important as physical.
You need a good heart, go jogging at least one lap 400m non stop. It's good enough.
You also need to relax your mind. if first time wear condom loses feeling and lost erection, then your second try will be much harder because mentally you are afraid to lose erection again. That little fear will take into effect.
Try to drink some alcohol before doing it or do it early in the morning to regain confidence.
Edit: sometimes too eager to do it will also make you lose erection. Yeah you heard it right, just because you are too eager to have sex and too excited, you lose erection.
This post has been edited by david5343: Jul 9 2024, 07:59 PM