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TScocomaru
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Jul 9 2024, 06:32 PM, updated 2y ago
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I do not know if this is the correct place to ask, but please forgive me if it is.
I have trouble maintaining an erection with a condom on, but I have no trouble getting it back, so should I change condoms if the condom does not slip off of your penis or can I keep using it?
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TScocomaru
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Jul 9 2024, 06:43 PM
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QUOTE(grape sunset @ Jul 9 2024, 06:41 PM) If I'm reading this right, you're asking if it's okay to use the same condom despite losing your erection but getting it back with the condom on. If you haven't gone in yet, then yes you can use the same condom. Yes, in the context if the condom is still intact on my penis even after I've lost my erection. If I have gone in, meaning if I have put my private inside her private area, even if I have lost my erection but somehow the condom is still intact on my private area, I am not able to keep using it even after my erection is back, correct? This post has been edited by cocomaru: Jul 9 2024, 06:46 PM
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TScocomaru
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Jul 9 2024, 06:49 PM
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QUOTE(Juan86 @ Jul 9 2024, 06:43 PM) yeah, I've had a similar issue, but I realized it was the oil and scent causing it. Maybe that could help. It has been nothing but depressing on my end, I am in a relationship with my girlfriend, and I did it without a condom with her previously because she was on the pills Then I asked her if she could just stop taking the pills because of the side effects, and I'll just try practice it with a condom. Sometimes I get to finish it inside a condom, most of the time I don't because of loss of erection I do not know if it is a mental thing or the age factor is creeping on me..but may I ask how did you manage to get over it? This post has been edited by cocomaru: Jul 9 2024, 06:50 PM
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TScocomaru
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Jul 9 2024, 06:54 PM
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QUOTE(grape sunset @ Jul 9 2024, 06:53 PM) Yes, better to be safe than sorry Okay, thank you so much!
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TScocomaru
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Jul 9 2024, 06:57 PM
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QUOTE(SinzChan @ Jul 9 2024, 06:48 PM) first, u fap too much. losing erection means weak heart weak blood circulation or simply u not horny. or dont buy extra large condom. I don't know if 2 to 5 times a week is considered too much, but sex or masturbation isn't on my mind most of the time But when I have that feeling to do it, I never seem to be able to maintain the erection long enough to finish the job with a condom on while I'm with her. I always buy the smallest size one, snug or close fit I think the label This post has been edited by cocomaru: Jul 9 2024, 06:58 PM
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TScocomaru
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Jul 9 2024, 06:58 PM
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QUOTE(anakkk @ Jul 9 2024, 06:57 PM) I thought there was another same thread? Sorry I could not find it, do you mind sharing it?
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TScocomaru
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Jul 9 2024, 07:20 PM
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QUOTE(anakkk @ Jul 9 2024, 07:00 PM) then it was not you :X I think it is more like your mental, not your libido :X It is most likely mental
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TScocomaru
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Jul 9 2024, 08:36 PM
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QUOTE(alternativehype @ Jul 9 2024, 07:36 PM) How old are you, so easy to lose erection? 29, only when a condom is on, without condom no problem
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TScocomaru
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Jul 9 2024, 08:38 PM
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QUOTE(david5343 @ Jul 9 2024, 07:57 PM) Everything has effect on your thing.. mental is as important as physical. You need a good heart, go jogging at least one lap 400m non stop. It's good enough. You also need to relax your mind. if first time wear condom loses feeling and lost erection, then your second try will be much harder because mentally you are afraid to lose erection again. That little fear will take into effect. Try to drink some alcohol before doing it or do it early in the morning to regain confidence. Edit: sometimes too eager to do it will also make you lose erection. Yeah you heard it right, just because you are too eager to have sex and too excited, you lose erection. I will try jogging more often, I exercise less because of my job but not impossible to make time for it. I think she is sexually attractive, that's definitely not the problem haha This post has been edited by cocomaru: Jul 9 2024, 08:42 PM
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TScocomaru
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Jul 9 2024, 09:58 PM
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QUOTE(david5343 @ Jul 9 2024, 08:50 PM) Just jogging twice a week.. you will be suprise of the effect it has. And try to hold it when you feel that you are strong enough.. you will be even much stronger after a few weeks I will try. How long should I jog minimum per day to see long term effect? 10 to 40 minutes? Hold it? You mean not masturbating even if you have the urge?
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TScocomaru
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Jul 10 2024, 01:50 PM
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QUOTE(pisces88 @ Jul 9 2024, 10:04 PM) have you tried diff condoms? is the one too thick until you cannot feel anything? or is it too tight until blood circulation cut off? 😂 Yes I have tried Durex, then some no name brands that I bought online, I have managed to finish it a few times with condom on, but most of the time I just lost erection halfway. Not sure what too tight means, because I can still feel something with a condom on, it just does not feel as good as when I did it without a condom. If by being too tight means that the condom is so small to the point where if I put it on my thing that it feels like it is going to smash it into bits, then no I have never felt like it is too tight.
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TScocomaru
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Jul 10 2024, 01:53 PM
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QUOTE(david5343 @ Jul 9 2024, 10:55 PM) No I mean hold it when you are going to cum.. just try to hold when you can. Up to the point that your partner has cum twice then only you shoot. 15 minutes is good enough for starter. Twice a week.. you will feel the effect after a week. Don't make love the same day after you jog though... After that.. just 25minutes twice a week will keep you fit... I jog Monday and Friday, Wednesday I do strength to keep in good shape. Oh I just understood what you mean, you mean edging. I have never tried that before. But I'll try to follow your advice and see if there is any positive changes in 2 to 4 weeks time, then maybe I will update it on this post again haha
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TScocomaru
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Jul 10 2024, 01:56 PM
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QUOTE(annoymous1234 @ Jul 9 2024, 11:21 PM) I believe u masturbate too much, thus without touch, u lose erection. Could also be mental issue, are u able to get erection without touching ur penis? Yes I am able to get erection without touching it, I usually fantasize about me in sexual situations at times when I could not sleep, and I always get erection when I do that.
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TScocomaru
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Jul 10 2024, 05:28 PM
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QUOTE(Gargamel_gibson @ Jul 10 2024, 04:35 PM) Definitely size wrong. Too tight or too loose will affect. Find a flexible measuring tape and measure girth (tebal, circumference). Then input into this calculator. https://www.myonecondoms.com/pages/enter-my-measurementsStandard condom is 52mm wide. Durex XL is 56mm Most Asian need snug fit or close fit which is 49mm. For me standard one was too tight so had to go bigger. I couldn't maintain when put on, too tight. Did not know this existed, will definitely try this. Thanks!
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TScocomaru
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Jul 10 2024, 05:30 PM
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QUOTE(darkwaka @ Jul 10 2024, 05:08 PM) Bro what type of condom you using? If you using 003 now and cannot maintain erect then you can try using 001 001 more thin are better feeling First few times, durex, then after I finished, I tried some no name brands that I bought online, ill try okamoto next to see if it feels any different
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