It has been nothing but depressing on my end, I am in a relationship with my girlfriend, and I did it without a condom with her previously because she was on the pills

Then I asked her if she could just stop taking the pills because of the side effects, and I'll just try practice it with a condom.

Sometimes I get to finish it inside a condom, most of the time I don't because of loss of erection

I do not know if it is a mental thing or the age factor is creeping on me..but may I ask how did you manage to get over it?