Yup, very cheap lesson indeed. Knowing her relationship with her previous boyfriend, could've easily been 5 digits instead.

This post has been edited by RocketPiki: Jun 26 2024, 05:27 PM

OMG... you dodged a bullet there, my friend!!!!

Tell her you only can see her as potential gf..... so ask her to avoid you at all cost .......

Looking at you yes.
Quite clear she is using you as rebound guy.
But from the way you write , you don't even know you are the rebound guy.

From the way you fall in love with her . It looks like you don't have much experience with women.
So yes, until you have more experience with women, you shouldn't contact her. I wouldn't say don't contact her , but treat her as an acquaintance, a hi bye friend.

TS already cut off contact… turns out the girl had, shall we say, ulterior motives….

It's great that you had decided to cut ties. 😁

I know her bf spent a lot on her, but she told me she never asked for it, so I give her benefit of the doubt. Seems like her actions and her words are complete opposite.

It was not that hard once I realize the ideal person I like is far from ideal.

Oftentimes, reality bites after the veneer of "the perfect woman of one's dream" is removed.

Having mutual friends def fucked up ur mental, it’s either u or her having the mutual friend group in the end, fortunately some shit happened in the middle of the duration after that and got back with the friend group, well, excluding her, and she found herself her friend group, nonetheless, still kind awkward tho whenever we meet f2f, I would just completely ignore her as if she was invisible cuz fuck y not

But definitely can’t be friends because of the recurring feelings when u two are together in the same settings, n u know damn well chances of getting together is slimmer to none, and secondly the awkwardness, cuz fuck being supressed expressing urself while in a group of mutual friends like u gotta act cool but ur inside is not

TS has moved on bro…

Ts dodged a bullet

Congratz!

lol I’m too late to the party I guess

But I’m happy for him. Last thing I would want for any person is to be taken advantage of as a mobile ATM

Occasionally she would give me mixed signals

if she treat you as frens and even stated it why wud she do that, or you misinterpreted due to the fact you had feelings for her and you convince yourself she is giving you mixed signals.

maybe you havnt been seeing a lot of girls and too focused on this one that you wanted her so much?

Usually if a person blows hot and cold, my first suspicion would be whether there's another party involved, and whether I'm merely the back up plan...

Maybe ..just maybe she saw your suffering and decided to help u...by 'killing' u off by being a disgusting person to u. She is your friend so she might know what would tick u off.
What do u think about this?

This post has been edited by Balanced: Jul 26 2024, 05:04 AM

Unlikely, IMHO ... because a girl wouldn't necessarily use money to turn off a guy... they would normally use another guy to turn off a guy.