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 Staying friends after rejection

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Drian
post Jun 28 2024, 08:33 AM

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QUOTE(RocketPiki @ Jun 22 2024, 02:56 PM)
After my friend broke up with her boyfriend, I start to fall in love with her. Occasionally she would give me mixed signals, so I decided to confess to know where I stand. She rejected me politely and clearly, saying we could still be friends but I should never fall for her as she only sees me as a friend.

I tried, hoping I can suppress my feelings back to how when she had a boyfriend. But every time we see each other, I fall for her again. I don't think I'm ready for platonic relationship with her just yet.

Should I cut all contact with her, until I'm 100% ready for a purely platonic relationship? And how to tell that I'm 100% ready?
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Looking at you yes.
Quite clear she is using you as rebound guy.
But from the way you write , you don't even know you are the rebound guy.

From the way you fall in love with her . It looks like you don't have much experience with women.
So yes, until you have more experience with women, you shouldn't contact her. I wouldn't say don't contact her , but treat her as an acquaintance, a hi bye friend.





 

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