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Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy,but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational,confusing things such as "oh, he's too nice to date or he would be a good boyfriend but he's not for me" or "he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn't possibly ask him out!" or the most frustrating of all: "No, it would ruin our friendship".

Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can't figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I'm going to sleep with this complete ass now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn't last forever.

There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single. =P

This is a tribute to the nice guys.The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and b****ing about what assholes guys are,while disapproving the very point.

This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores...

It's in women's genetic code that they like to be dominated by strong men.

Blame it on god.

zzzzzzzz

Dont listen to this blog-attention-whore.

There was a thread about "Nice Guys" a few months back. Try to find and dig it up.

Hehe.. yeah sad but true.

Girls label me to be very gentlemen / nice guys.

But they like guys more leng chai or in their words more "man" .

Money is not everything, but without money there's absolutely nothing...
Get a life biatch! accept the fact

nah it's not true all girls like to be dominated by men.. what else strong men? hahaha i like to dominate.. not be dominated

We'll see that, on the bed.

I appreciate good guys
don't generalize. I don't ever use my friends to get my way with things..

Too bad, girls killed all those good guys.

As a Nice Guy let me say something:

It doesn't matter whether other ppl see us as finishing last, what is important is that the girl, who comes into our lives, knows what she's getting, and (probably) will stick to you through thick and thin.

As a Nice Guy, the important thing is that you give her all the love you can, and every time that love is requieted, you feel on top of the world.

If life was a bus route, the girl is the bus, and the guy is the Last Stop. She won't be goin' anywhere once she ends up with you.

Happy Together, The End.

The weak will die. Nice Guys usually turn to the Dark Side, but the strongest are those who believe in themselves, and stick to who they truly are. Just don't fall in love with a SPAM

u r 18??????

A song for all nice guy out there.

側田 好人

若談樣子　不會叫好　不算最討好
但我的內在美　不夠味道　哪足以自豪
談為人　當然好　雙手也好抱
無奈獨有伴侶問前路
沒有想陪同鄰家男孩跳舞
唯獨當我師徒

人人親近我　無人爭奪我
無人關懷是誰大平賣親和
平凡像我路過　十個似我　情敵實在太多
人人鼓勵我　無人傾慕我
常常激勵別人盡情熱戀事後遺下我
像毒咒　無人愛我　別嚇我

並無自欺　所有老死　只配作知己
願意跟我細數戀愛挫折　抱住我會死
談完情　拖好手　都將我拋棄
從來沒理會我喜與悲
是那麼平凡仍可以來鬥氣
談情令我心死　由得我死

人人親近我　無人爭奪我
無人關懷是誰大平賣親和
平凡像我路過　十個似我
你管不到那麼多
天都不愛我　立心孤立我
平凡的人若提及情份便顯得不配麼
難道我看不到現況正是結果

由得我　無人爭奪我
無人關懷是誰大平賣親和
平凡像我路過　十個似我　情敵實在太多
天都不理我　令我想清楚
感情是來自由弱者所寫的悲歌
事實上為什麼不拍到拖　說穿了我不美　信我

"The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single. =P"


TS, u looking for me??

oh, but 1st of all...how old r u??

Darwinism.

Well, we could always thanks nice guys, you might get the girls in the end, but our genetic codes already passed to them by then.

Thanks for raising our(bad guys) kids

Now that explains the matchmaking scenario

Real life story.

Mom : This guy ah, engineer. Working in a big company. Drive beamer. Got a few houses collect rental. Got semi D at xxx. Very good guy ah..
Me : Oh, how old is he again?
Mom : 32 years old
Me : And you said he never paktor before?
Mom : Yealor, such a nice guy. Let mom intro to you lah..
Me : Is he gay?
Mom : ...

Nice guy always get misunderstood. Now I feel so guilty.

I guess u are now misunderstood still, this kind of guy doesn't bother to dig gal anymore. Is more like gals go dig him.

Not all girls will dig rich guys

of coz not all, but most mar.

I demand proof.

I can tell u that suiteng herself will neva dig rich guy, but do suiteng count as a gal or not then we have to think about that.

not misunderstood.... he IS GAY!!! i'm sure of it

I dun think so, is more like his life massively fill by work and got no time to roll.

true, very true.. nice people aka guys always get misunderstood, why is that so ?? anybody care to share


really ? which girl doesn't dig nice guys ? show me one and i'll show you a virgin...

most i think you mean 99.9% ?

true true..

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Added on November 1, 2007, 9:47 ambut then girls like gay people as friends, as they dont need to worry about them(gay) liking them(girls)..
so can be best friends forever, thats why girls want and like ain't i right ?

This post has been edited by JinXXX: Nov 1 2007, 09:47 AM

if in 51% out of 100%, I would count that as most already

It's annoying to women when nice guys ask stupid questions like "Is everything ok?", or "Did I do something wrong?" or "So do you like the flowers I gave you?"

If that's what nice guys are, then they're a bunch of wuss, and women hate wusses. There was this once I stood in front of a lady to protect her stalker ex, two days later I slept with her.

This post has been edited by spanker: Nov 1 2007, 10:30 AM

dunno i always think that if a guy is that good he'll be taken already for a guy who's in their thirties... otherwise sure got prob... and most of the time it's proven true..

gays are only good as friends not life partner!! tat's the difference

hrm... not really i really do like the guy in my office who's really nice.. too bad he's attached

Another proof that girls like guys that are attached.

Wah,, Dominated in term of what ?

Dominated is OKAY but if you try be the LEADER is not good dude ,,

but if "Women On Top" I agree lah he he he he (Man be dominated but Man very enjoy it )...)

not necessary, some guy just use to the life of being single, and maybe they will become single for the rest of their life. As well, if u know how to choose ppl, ppl can choose you as well. Most probaly they are looking for someone who can match up with their thinking or status, and that can be the reason they are still singlr.

when i know him he wasn't attached lar....

hehe that could be the reason.. and i always hope that's the reason.. but oh well...

No, he's NOT.
More likely, he's a serial murderer... seduce all kinda of girls with his charm and wealth and murder them, drink their blood, etc before moving onto the next victim.. that's why he's still 'available' till this day...

Someone didn't take her chances because the guy is too nice...

See, nice guys tend to get overlooked, unless they're lucky like your friend there.

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Added on November 1, 2007, 10:53 amYou're talking about me?

I like moo's blood too.

This post has been edited by Gr3yL3gion81: Nov 1 2007, 10:53 AM

Question is: Why doesn't he like you?

oh no oh no oh no~~~ are u talking about yourself??

er... not really... we all know he's interested in another gal so oh well... he was definitely not overlooked... hahahahaha

the cow head watch too much CSI edi

yalor.. i cry myself to bed every night thinking bout it

Poor you.

Let me be a nice guy for once and give you a hug.

mana mana??!!! where who!!!! aiya..... early early should intro already mar

Come out yumcha with me some time, I'll make sure you cry yourself to bed every night thinking of something else


btw, how come you didn't reply my SMS?

he will sure say himself

eeeee you're scary... you may just be the kinda person moo moo talking about... you're no nice guy... eeee....

hrm.. which sms?? are you the one playing miss calls on my phone??

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Added on November 1, 2007, 11:01 amhe definitely 100% not mr. nice guy.. more like mr. hamsup guy

This post has been edited by rourou: Nov 1 2007, 11:01 AM

Hey I'm a nice guy, but I can be a bad guy too

Umm... I think the SMS was like 3 months ago. spanker don't play missed calls, either hit it, or kill it with fire.

beware of giving ur # , if there so many miscall ,,, plan to buy the new one , don't let stranger disturbing u, don't believe the guy from internet,,, so many internet criminal out there !!!

impossible... if you do a survey with all the guys at/around my age, I'd probably be one of the poorest around.

i'm not too sure bout that~~

er.... then sorry... but i don't remember not replying to your sms-es...

thanks for the concern... not many miscall.. just from this single number.. when i answer he hangs up... when i call back he hangs up... so i've set the number as "do not pick up"

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Added on November 1, 2007, 11:13 amthat's cause you've spent all your money building that underground place to preserve and store the bodies of all those women you've killed!!!

This post has been edited by rourou: Nov 1 2007, 11:13 AM

Why don't you find out? You've invested too much already anyways, eh?

I can drop by your office any weekday.

I think this guy is sick ,, I see so many his postings in the threads, the arguments sometime very opposite in different threads.

Yeah... you are a bad guy ),,, but as I know nobody want declare himself as a bad guy,, even a trully bad guy don't want
(I think bad guy is from the act not from the word u written,, yeach u are "written bad guy")


Ok Mr.Bad Guy you are Amazing loch.

You don't hear bad guys calling themselves bad because they kill you after that. Unfortunately, I'm still working on a way to reach through your monitor and knife you.

This post has been edited by spanker: Nov 1 2007, 11:32 AM

as this phrase becomes common.......good guys need to be bad guys liau....if not alwiz end up last........

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Added on November 1, 2007, 11:37 amer.. what exactly have i invested on??

This post has been edited by rourou: Nov 1 2007, 11:37 AM

Time and effort. Answer please

rourou, just wanna hear your opinion.

Would you go steady with A) romantic sweet talking handsome jerk or B) sweet-hearted, and polite ugly geek?

Thanks, please reply. I won't take your personal choice as general opinion of girls out there.

okay. i'm meeting 7chai for lunch.. you wanna tag along?

how's bad the jerk and how ugly is ugly?? i always believe there's no ugly ppl just lazy ppl... not lengchai is okay.. but not ugly ugly...

i'll rather stay single if those two are my only choice

Oh man, now is kinda last minute. How about.... Monday?

should be fine lunch on you??

i'm one of those materialistic gals who thinks guys should pay for everything.

>>>You don't hear bad guys calling themselves bad because they kill you after that

because I didn't ever hear guys out there said "I am a bud guy", but on this threads I only see u alone said that "You are a bad guy" and scare other people with your Knife )

>>I'm still working on a way to reach through your monitor and knife you.


He he he Why do u so angry and want to knife me throught my monitor ???

Please don't heart feel lah baby ....

Kasihan deh loch

well, that's the reality... you have no choices left

cool down cool down... carnegz there's a lot of ppl who's not really like themselves online... some seems very nice online but are total jerk when you meet them.

Liar liar panties on fire.

When u went out with meh, u paid for ur own food. Does dat mean j00 likes me?

dude, do u have frens ? in real life as well as in internet ? If you do, take a look at them see whether they behave the same in real life and in virtual world.

okay who's richer!!!

no need to announce to whole world geh...

w00t? Is 7chai paying for your lunch today? (Actually I *might* be able to make it today, I just don't know what time I go out for lunch.)
Where are you guys going?

No way babe, I'm a WYSIWYG

Not whole world, just LYN only

Jom tengok wayang. Im gonna go back melaka this weekend.

Yup,, you right

hehe we're going to kfc at 1pm
what's WYSIWYG

come... got nice movie on?? i dun wan no horror/thrillers

U just follow n I pick the movie

Why are looks mutually exclusive now? Only assholes can be good looking? =P

that's NOTHING, she shared cendol with kcng

.... okay....

wanted to share with you.. but you turn me down

I hate cendol anyway

I'll call you if I can make it, is it Maxis-xxx1788?

Are you like, stalking rourou or wut?

yea meh?
didn't seem like so to me...

Lembu dipinggirkan.

nope.. I was sitting between rourou and kcng.. she simply passed the bowl of cendol right through me as if I never existed... sigh...

*gives a bowl of cendol to moomoo*

sigh... neglected with a capital N.
Plus, I'm not even a "NICE GUY"!!! yet I finished last...

I wish I was invisible too sometimes

Then count urself lucky.

Nice guys dont finish last, they dont finish at all

hey... I thought we suppose to go KL Starhill/Lot 10 to take photos of chicks...?
that was like what? 2 years ago!?

Me worse.. I didn't even get to start!!!

i asked you if you want.. you said don't want

of course.. I'm not a NICE GUY. Being a BAD GUY, I'd expect you to feed me...

All in all, back to topic...

It's not nice guys or not so nice guys or bad guys or evil guys who finish last. It's all about initiative.

Yeah man.... so like I've known you for 2 years? Man... we're like old friends now

hmmm... got poison ka?

LOL old friends who have never even met.

Doesn't mean we can't be friends ja?

But then again, are you sure you want to? hahahahah

hands got prob??

initiative....

own expereince ah

i once knw an above average girl from a bank. she is above 30 but she never date b4. i was confused. maybe she is too choosy

it's security


ah ha, see, be a bad boy like spanker. btw, do u knw her b4 u be her hero?

he is talking abt himself


damn jz afew hrs, 5 pages.

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Added on November 1, 2007, 12:56 pmhis hand is for something else

This post has been edited by Drifter: Nov 1 2007, 12:56 PM

feel u

that is sad guy ald

@drifter: i'm too old for even @melon lah, lolz

Nice guy doesn't equate to wuss, thats diff category. Just that they happen to treat ppl with respect. Anyways (younger) gals wanna go out with fun guy, usually, Nice Guy doesn't mean boring. As ppl , u must be adaptable la.

Sometimes Nice Guys finish last cos they not bold enough, and never evoke a sense of excitement in a girl. U know girls la, when they excite and heart beating fast, they like this feeling one. Badboyz dfferent, they dare to try, if cannot move to next one, not start a thread about how much they yearn for the girl they like.

he probably hired the thugs himself
elaborate :hehe

exactly... nice guys can also be fun and exciting