this is one of the best article I have come across for Relationship Advise for Married Couples

1. BE TOGETHER FOR THE RIGHT REASONS
2. HAVE REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND ROMANCE
3. THE MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR IN A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT COMMUNICATION, BUT RESPECT
4. TALK OPENLY ABOUT EVERYTHING, ESPECIALLY THE STUFF THAT HURTS
5. A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP MEANS TWO HEALTHY INDIVIDUALS
6. GIVE EACH OTHER SPACE
7. YOU AND YOUR PARTNER WILL GROW AND CHANGE IN UNEXPECTED WAYS—EMBRACE IT
8. GET GOOD AT FIGHTING
9. GET GOOD AT FORGIVENESS
10. THE LITTLE THINGS ADD UP TO BIG THINGS
11. BE PRACTICAL, AND CREATE RELATIONSHIP RULES
12. LEARN TO RIDE THE WAVES

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relationship is mutual effort, a lot of times we will play blame game instead of look within

recently wife's family came visit and brought along her mom, brother and his wife..... so i treated them to a short holiday out of KL..... they were down for  a week or so......all was good but after they went back....my dilemma started.... wife started to get emo and booked her self an air bnb for 2 nites sort of run a way frm home..... till i have to call n persuade her to come back home...

So im sure u and all the guys r curious what happened.... apparently she says i treat her bro's wife better than her..... becoz her bro wife's got some chinese blood in her..... we chinese treat chinese better...... my wife is thai btw. Im like WTF???!! with this it escalates to world war 3.... sighhhh...

So in my mind i treat all visitors the same doesn't matter if ur white, black or yellow..... how did i end up in this situation??? any advise how to deal with this dilemma?

recently wife's family came visit and brought along her mom, brother and his wife..... so i treated them to a short holiday out of KL..... they were down for  a week or so......all was good but after they went back....my dilemma started.... wife started to get emo and booked her self an air bnb for 2 nites sort of run a way frm home..... till i have to call n persuade her to come back home...

So im sure u and all the guys r curious what happened.... apparently she says i treat her bro's wife better than her..... becoz her bro wife's got some chinese blood in her..... we chinese treat chinese better...... my wife is thai btw. Im like WTF???!! with this it escalates to world war 3.... sighhhh...

So in my mind i treat all visitors the same doesn't matter if ur white, black or yellow..... how did i end up in this situation??? any advise how to deal with this dilemma?

from this i can see that ur wife jealous too much
how old is she?

first of all congrats on you for having so much patience, i wonder how did you still able to be so calm after what she did i guess there's sumone for everyone. If you were dating most ppl here would have asked to reconsider marriage if she acts like this so often.

i guess you either have to do what she wants to make her happy or expect more of this sudden acts such as running from the home

Too late for TS ... already married. Nasi sudah menjadi bubur ...

not too late if the wife can change her character to be more accepting and less jealous and less reactive in this way. If not then just stay in this type of relationship and bear with it

Harder to just up sticks and leave a marriage, if there are kids involved in the equation...

recently wife's family came visit and brought along her mom, brother and his wife..... so i treated them to a short holiday out of KL..... they were down for  a week or so......all was good but after they went back....my dilemma started.... wife started to get emo and booked her self an air bnb for 2 nites sort of run a way frm home..... till i have to call n persuade her to come back home...

So im sure u and all the guys r curious what happened.... apparently she says i treat her bro's wife better than her..... becoz her bro wife's got some chinese blood in her..... we chinese treat chinese better...... my wife is thai btw. Im like WTF???!! with this it escalates to world war 3.... sighhhh...

So in my mind i treat all visitors the same doesn't matter if ur white, black or yellow..... how did i end up in this situation??? any advise how to deal with this dilemma?

My Wife Thai and she is very understanding to the level she allow me to have another GF. (I'm serious)

have u try bribe your wife with some gift and holiday? or just holiday in Thailand, maybe she also miss her hometown

Just curious bro, did you take her up on her offer?

I do have multiple ex-GF, some gold digger, some seems like sincere. but at the moment I have close ex-GF that still in good communication with me and her

I guess as long as it’s EX-gf with no benefits then no harm done right? Hahaha

Well she still express interest to get back with me but I say to her not at the moment because the age Gap 19 years old and I'm still not so sure if she into serious relationship even though she say she is looking for serious relationship

Age is but a number, or so they say

But, to be honest, if you're already in a happy relationship, why chance it?

I have insecurity feeling due to past failed marriage. If i love someone (only 1 partner) and that person could leave me and I feel breakdown. In fact i express this feeling and thought before I even have relationship with current wife. Therefore I found that if I have another person with her consent and also treat and care to her I will feel much secure and less trauma (I know it sounds selfish and weird)