Parents who regret having children
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 Apr 24 2024, 09:38 AM
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QUOTE(kons @ Apr 24 2024, 09:24 AM) when u are young u regret having children... Senior citizen that lives in retirement home are mostly full with seniors with kidswhen u are old.. u will regret not having children  Some of them their kids never visit or care about them So these people regret having kids? lerijiso, skyblack4492, and 1 other liked this post
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Apr 24 2024, 11:38 AM
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QUOTE(kons @ Apr 24 2024, 10:00 AM) u see one retirement home u think all kids are char siew? How do u know that your kids will take care of you?without kids, definitely u need to go retirement home if you need attentive care. or you are rich enough, u can hire full time nurse at home. with kids, there is 50/50 chance your kids will take care of you. it depends on how you bring up your kids. you just ignore the kids of course the kids wont take care of you. I've talked some of the senior citizen among chinese people, they are so proud telling me all of their kids are living & working overseas, while they are rotting here and depends on relatives help. Their kids only come back once a year or no come back for a long period of time Clearly their kids don't even care much about them. I'm sure going back to Malaysia for the currency they earn is just peanut to them. That's not something to be proud at all. This post has been edited by xpole: Apr 24 2024, 11:39 AM |
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Apr 27 2024, 09:55 AM
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QUOTE(ameliorate @ Apr 26 2024, 09:41 AM) Yes, I know one old spinster as well. Always look for things to do. She will go holiday for couple months at a time by herself. Just wandering from country to country, stay in hostel or any cheap lodgings. This is the problem with the mentality of Asian people.If you don't want children, at least get married. Humans are social creatures, no man is an island. Once you get older you will realize is so lonely. Judgemental towards individual that decided to become single and they don't want any marriage or children. Do you know that person may experienced life trauma during her life? Abuse from family members? Sexual Assault? Confused sexual orientation and many more? Marriage is not a solution. Who cares on what she wants to do with her free time. At least she has her own hobbies and money to spend. This post has been edited by xpole: Apr 27 2024, 09:56 AM gashout and Kaya Butter Toast liked this post
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