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 Dating apps, Is it just another way to make money?

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TSNapalm_man
post Apr 22 2024, 09:26 AM

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QUOTE(Life_House @ Apr 22 2024, 12:07 AM)
It's not the fault of dating apps.
It's not your fault about your physical unattractiveness.

In fact it's not about anything or anyone''s fault.
It's just part of the journey of finding your Specific Person.
Some ppl got it faster while some take some time. It's so normal.

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What we Think, we "broadcast " to the universe.
What we broadcast, we attract...
The loops repeat.

The "attractiveness " of a person comes from the "inner vibes".

Their ways of thinking.
Their values on life, relationship, money and some other important parts of life.
Their daily habits and routines that help to shape or strengthen their vibes.
So it would reflect on how they communicate to the opposite genders.

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It might worth your thoughts...

Probably you may consider split up your after work time to learn about self improvement, about financial management, about taking care your health, about managing relationship  from some of the well known and proven successful figures..

To see significant results, it means to take some significant changes in your daily habits and routines..
It means you might need to adjust some time to be in silent mode in order for you to be able to execute the changes, more efficiently.

Probably you may also start with consistent work out on daily basis.
If you are on budget, there are lots of demo videos on YouTube on overall or partially work out.
If you wish enjoy the gym environment then apply gym membership.


But above all things, if you wish find luck in dating apps, you may reflect on yourself....

What are your. "Core beliefs " towards the roles of  females in relationship and in marriage ?

How would you like to communicate with them in ways that let them feel that not only you're a bit interesting but most importantly, they can feel your genuine respect and genuine intentions to females ?
....Assume you wish find a lady that could probably with you lifetime. If this is the case.

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Not all ladies wants very good looking guys.
For some ladies, as long as the guys keep their appearance neat, clean, tidy, and with good integrity,   
and with heavy sense of responsibility, even plain looking guys can get their good match.

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Most ppl are not born good at everything...
It just take times on learning .  And keep learning along the the life.

When you start the changes bit by bit and your confidence grow, you attract better pools of quality match and eventually might be  your specific person.
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I don't usually read long reply but this, the world would be a better place if everyone has a mature mindset like you. You got my like there thumbsup.gif
johnsonlim777
post Apr 22 2024, 09:37 AM

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Hey guys wanna ask- how fast are we expected to reply girls messages these days? Is 1 day gap too late? Usually will match on CMB then bring forward convo to IG; but usually convo dies off over time
TSNapalm_man
post Apr 22 2024, 09:50 AM

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QUOTE(johnsonlim777 @ Apr 22 2024, 09:37 AM)
Hey guys wanna ask- how fast are we expected to reply girls messages these days? Is 1 day gap too late? Usually will match on CMB then bring forward convo to IG; but usually convo dies off over time
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You're not alone about conversation dies off lol, if not mistaken CMB gave you like 7 days(I might be wrong) to chat once matched. And about how soon you should reply a girl, up to you man. Previously me would take around 45 - 1 hour to reply, that's my range.
johnsonlim777
post Apr 22 2024, 11:06 AM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Apr 22 2024, 09:50 AM)
You're not alone about conversation dies off lol, if not mistaken CMB gave you like 7 days(I might be wrong) to chat once matched. And about how soon you should reply a girl, up to you man. Previously me would take around 45 - 1 hour to reply, that's my range.
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Wow is that the norm nowadays? 45min to 1 hour is quite fast in my opinion
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post Apr 26 2024, 11:40 AM

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QUOTE(johnsonlim777 @ Apr 22 2024, 09:37 AM)
Hey guys wanna ask- how fast are we expected to reply girls messages these days? Is 1 day gap too late? Usually will match on CMB then bring forward convo to IG; but usually convo dies off over time
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Girl like you she will reply you instantly!
TSNapalm_man
post Apr 26 2024, 11:52 AM

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QUOTE(johnsonlim777 @ Apr 22 2024, 11:06 AM)
Wow is that the norm nowadays? 45min to 1 hour is quite fast in my opinion
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I can’t really comment about this, some girls does take days to reply then like no more.
nicole_4ever
post May 8 2024, 02:15 AM

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No luck with dating app, all scammers. Either scam or ask for sex. Lol.
TSNapalm_man
post May 8 2024, 09:59 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ May 8 2024, 02:15 AM)
No luck with dating app, all scammers. Either scam or ask for sex. Lol.
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What kind of scam you encountered?

I met typical nigerian types of love scam, then the pig butchering scam where they introducing those catchy forex or bitcoin trading.
nicole_4ever
post May 8 2024, 10:04 AM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ May 8 2024, 09:59 AM)
What kind of scam you encountered?

I met typical nigerian types of love scam, then the pig butchering scam where they introducing those catchy forex or bitcoin trading.
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Investment. Telling you 'Brb, I am going to check my market' 😅

Latest one is to get you like their online page which i am not sure what they can get other than a like. 😐
TSNapalm_man
post May 8 2024, 10:37 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ May 8 2024, 10:04 AM)
Investment. Telling you 'Brb, I am going to check my market' 😅

Latest one is to get you like their online page which i am not sure what they can get other than a like. 😐
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Like their page, now that's new. I seen few girls fishing for follower on their instagram by sharing the QR code, texted them but lol they don't even bother to read.

Still using dating apps?
nicole_4ever
post May 8 2024, 10:59 AM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ May 8 2024, 10:37 AM)
Like their page, now that's new. I seen few girls fishing for follower on their instagram by sharing the QR code, texted them but lol they don't even bother to read.

Still using dating apps?
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Nope, if you talking about fb dating profile, tinder.

Gave up 😅.
TSNapalm_man
post May 8 2024, 11:41 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ May 8 2024, 10:59 AM)
Nope, if you talking about fb dating profile, tinder.

Gave up 😅.
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That's understandable, due to so many scam ruining the apps. You didn't try Love Classified? I would say the chances of encountering scammer are low there, but still i would say those looking for sex still lingering around.

Currently texting one from Love Classified, she message me last week and we been chatting until now.
nicole_4ever
post May 9 2024, 12:10 AM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ May 8 2024, 11:41 AM)
That's understandable, due to so many scam ruining the apps. You didn't try Love Classified? I would say the chances of encountering scammer are low there, but still i would say those looking for sex still lingering around.

Currently texting one from Love Classified, she message me last week and we been chatting until now.
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I guess I am okay to be single, probably status ain't my priority anymore like what used to be.


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post May 9 2024, 07:53 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ May 9 2024, 12:10 AM)
I guess I am okay to be single, probably status ain't my priority anymore like what used to be.
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Lesser drama and lower spending, what a bargain right?
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post May 9 2024, 11:37 AM

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I am also slowly getting used to being single now. Getting emotionally tired from trying dating apps.

Dating app feels very disconnected. Those that I match with r also very cautious when chatting so things slowly die off. Don't feel like they have the intrest in getting to know each other.
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post May 9 2024, 01:13 PM

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QUOTE(NAVEE @ May 9 2024, 11:37 AM)
I am also slowly getting used to being single now. Getting emotionally tired from trying dating apps.

Dating app feels very disconnected. Those that I match with r also very cautious when chatting so things slowly die off. Don't feel like they have the intrest in getting to know each other.
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Understandable, harder to get match with people that met our requirements. Don’t get me wrong, every person whether men or women has their preferences. Some men like women with long hair, some women like tall men etc.

Then when we matched with some, there’s a possibility that person is a pig butchering or romance scammers.
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post May 10 2024, 01:39 PM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ May 8 2024, 02:15 AM)
No luck with dating app, all scammers. Either scam or ask for sex. Lol.
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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ May 8 2024, 09:59 AM)
What kind of scam you encountered?

I met typical nigerian types of love scam, then the pig butchering scam where they introducing those catchy forex or bitcoin trading.
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QUOTE(NAVEE @ May 9 2024, 11:37 AM)
I am also slowly getting used to being single now. Getting emotionally tired from trying dating apps.

Dating app feels very disconnected. Those that I match with r also very cautious when chatting so things slowly die off. Don't feel like they have the intrest in getting to know each other.
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Don't know how you guys chat with girls or talk with them. Most I talk to ok je.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: May 10 2024, 02:08 PM
nicole_4ever
post May 10 2024, 01:46 PM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ May 10 2024, 01:39 PM)
Don't know how you guys chat with girls or talk with them. Most it talk to ok je.
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It's very easy to get detect actually just by the introduction itself.

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post May 10 2024, 02:12 PM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ May 10 2024, 01:39 PM)
Don't know how you guys chat with girls or talk with them. Most I talk to ok je.
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For scammer, it doesn’t matter how well or smooth the conversation is. In matter of time, they will show their true colours by introducing you with those weird forex/bitcoin trading.

I also curious what went wrong, the conversation not related to politics or government or religion etc. Just casual conversation, perhaps my face problems then.
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post May 11 2024, 03:33 AM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ May 9 2024, 01:13 PM)
Understandable, harder to get match with people that met our requirements. Don’t get me wrong, every person whether men or women has their preferences. Some men like women with long hair, some women like tall men etc.

Then when we matched with some, there’s a possibility that person is a pig butchering or romance scammers.
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I am not sure what i want after went through a short relationship like maybe 2 or 3 years ago and from what i can said about myself in that moment, i don't care how he looks at all (tbh, he is way below average) and he is even barely can pay for our date (AA, and it doesn't bother me at all).

The funniest part, he does care about how I look and how much I earned (my observation won't go wrong). He left me during my toughest time.


So, when every time i am trying to know someone, i will automatically tell them, I am over 100kg (which is true previously) or how ugly I am. I do not want to waste anybody time. End up, not even one online person was keep in my phone list.

Time fast forward, I am tired doing this and slowly giving up about having someone to come into my life.





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