QUOTE(Sihambodoh @ Oct 14 2023, 12:44 PM)
By that logic, every time I apply for job I also got stalked by companies who check my LinkedIn, asked around colleagues about me, check my Facebook and Insta posts lor.
By that logic, if a guy approaches you and you are walking in the opposite direction in the mall, he is stalking you also because he is following you?
Stalking should only be considered stalking when there is repetition involved. If the girl doesn't hiao him and he drops another note again, then that is stalking.
So fucking strawberry nowadays, sikit sikit stalking, sikit sikit feel threatened, sikit sikit feel offended.
I kinda disagree with your comparison. You are not apple to apple.
Can you lock your profile as private in LinkedIn? How did HR scout you if you are not advertising your contact number?
Mall is just point A. This is fine. But, from badminton hall to food court is like Point A to Point B.
Since you have followed my car, what are the chance for you to wait me finished my dinner and follow me to point C which is home?
QUOTE(Volfeed @ Oct 14 2023, 08:10 PM)
I don't think this is stalking. At least the guy left his phone number so that he was made known. Releasing his phone number to public, on the other hand is very unethical. You can destroy a guys life with this action.
Why releasing his phone number to public is unethical?
The guy willingly note down his number and place it on stranger's windscreen though.
Perhaps before we talk about ethic/ moral, why not the guy use brain and think first what are the consequences of his approach?
We are not in Flintstones era d.
QUOTE(KineticKill @ Oct 15 2023, 09:27 AM)
1. No introvert would involve an extra person in an already stressful interpersonal interaction. Tell me you don’t understand introversion without telling me you don’t understand introversion.
2. How is that better from what he’s doing now? He’s choosing IG as his medium of interaction, a public medium by giving his personal medium of interaction, whatsapp. Now you’re asking him to contact her directly to her personal medium of interaction and not be considered a creep?

Your dad probably found your mum’s number thru stalking a phonebook. Don’t be too extra la
Okay.. 1. My bad. I'm not introvert. Nvm, just forget about it.
2. You don't understand. Let me explain how every badminton host gather its social player for casual game.
They use sports Apps to create the badminton session. Time/ Date/ Location is mention in the description bar.
There is a limit of player per court number. Once all players fill up the qouta, the game is ON.
In the apps, you can see players participate the game. Since female not alot, you can easily identify the girl.
Then the Apps got chat function. You just click the female profile and start direct message her lor.
Give you sample if you still don't get my explanation.

This is what I mean, the soft approach.
Also, I don't get it why you need to involve my parent in this discussion. wew..