curly is andrew?

did the said person speak with the girls during the match?

or is he some quiet awkward person?

that's part and parcel of courtship just like in the old days la

guys need to have thick skin to brace through the various challenges including being called 'chikopek' and whatsnot.

through various dating experience, some girls can be quite a little bit more sensitive compared to other girls. Best is to avoid them (don't talk so much with them) once you have known them.

So, those girls are usually weirdos themselves (of course they themselves are not even aware of their own weird awkward behaviour).

On the other hand, there are also guys who are socially awkward or exhibiting other weird behaviour.

Had the guy been sending sexual messages or harassing the girl repeatedly despite having being rejected, then i would agree it's creepy and inappropriate.

Honestly i don't see how this is stalking in TS case.

Because I remember I have a friend who passed me a message on my car windscreen before because he wanted to inform me something but he couldn't reach me. Yea, that was back in those days before the smartphone era. He found my car along the roadside and he put a small piece of paper on my windscreen just to pass me a message. I don't see how this is creepy or anything close to harassment.

So, what is the simp trying to achieve here by calling out the guy?



This post has been edited by Blofeld: Oct 15 2023, 01:36 AM

so, if he happens to meet you face-to-face at the foodcourt, even worst right?

also considered stalking right?

like as if you have not met your colleagues or friends at foodcourt/shopping malls.

wwahhhhhhh how he found me at the foodcourt/shopping mall? he stalked me all the way from the office

i think he only pretended to be female somewhere starting in the middle of the thread

his initial posts sounds like he's simping for the girl bcos someone else is trying to court his target

even in office, it's easy to know who's driving which car, we will surely see them at the carpark, including some colleagues which we have not spoken to before.

so, he has probably seen her walking out from the car from within the vicinity of the court, etc.