THIS.

Also don't make 1 kid only. Single child is worse than having no kid. DUnno wtf those ppl thinking. Horrible fate for that child, grow up lonely, upbringing also damn challenging cos lack of interaction with other kids other than school. Then suddenly join workforce with all the social drama. The scale is against them.

Then old time the poor child going to solo handle two retired self centered old fart. They are fucking self centered because most of the time main reason stop 1 child because they not ready to handle the trouble and expenses for more kids. Choosing easy way out. And very short sighted just want to get a kid like some kind of life trophy.

So u the type order grab for old parent ask them to climb into it themselves while u work in another state?

Or u the type that force your spouse to be caretaker for ur frail parent?

Talk so loud. Wait till u start doing hospital run for elderly. Then u will know the difference between 1 and 2 kid. 190% increase in manpower.

If u only have enough attention and effort to raise only ONE child. U really shouldnt have one at all. Self centered to max. U treating them like life achievement trophy. U did it without thinking of wellbeing of your ONLY kid. That kid going to be in living hell when one of u get cancer.