I un that.

stay single is lonely and bad for health

In hindsight i would have chosen to stay single

Desth is uncertain especially incresse heart attack due to covid vax. Best thing i could have done is be single and take care of my parent and fool around with diff girls anytime i want

Why do u assume people that decided to be single they will die alone?

I have 1 late uncle that never married and stay single for the rest of this life. When he almost passed away, my family and other relatives are together watching him passef away

don't need to be even 60-70s, once out of uni masuk work/get married, yumcha buddies all almost gone already, each have their own life

But what if both old & sick, then who take care?

What you think?

Seems they got married due to other ppl's wishes. Not by own choice. Obviously set up for failure.

just dont get married for the sake of it, if you find some1 suitable then yea go ahead

My advise is please take your time if you plan to get married.

Ensure both families are introduced and welcoming of each other. For some they may feel this is not important as getting married is to start their own life but trust me, it will matter. Support and understanding from both families should be made one of the top priority.

Make sure your partner is the ONE. Some say both of you should be best friends as to go through marriage life is going to be tough. Need a lot of compromise and tolerance.

If there is a positive environment surrounding your marriage most likely everything will be fine.

try to live the single bohemian free life until you are 50.

then tell me u enjoy or not?

I see so many single guys reached 50 but don't seem to have direction in life. They want to go travel round the world but nobody to go with. They asked other guys, but other single guys think eh so ghey one, don't want to join. They asked other girls, girls think I don't want to join 50 yo uncle. Some more those 50 yo uncle, maybe got money but they also have preference for younger gals, when they look at 50 yo auntie, they say don't want lah, no quality.

I also see some 50 yo guys buy a lot of man toys like mercedes, most expensive mountain bikes, superbikes, gundam toys, but in the end just play with it themselves.

In the end what is the point eh?

Got all the moneh, got all the time but don't know where to spend it.

Got some even very filial, spend a lot of times with their parents, take them out for makan, take them overseas, hire maid for them. That is good. But some of my single friends at that age, feeling depress because they see death all around them, they take care of their dementia parents, don't see life around them.

Then everyday in office, people look down on single guys. Some people even dread working for single unmarried dragon lady in their 50s. True story, i heard got one bitch unmarried lady like to punish her staff if they get pregnant, put them into dead end jobs.

Some options:

Marry and have kids
Marry and have no kids
Don't marry and maintain couples
Stay single and become playboy/girl.

I would say "To each their own". Everyone has their opinion on whether a person should stay single or be married. And most of the time they will think that the option that they choose for themselves is the best one.

Whatever decision you make, just make it because you want to, and not because of what other people think.

No need ba nirvana package, take the money enjoy. When die, let the ngo or charity manage and burn ur body free hghhhhhhh.

hnnggghhhhh

Please open poll to let us vote

single ppl may wanna get married or vice versa

wagie marry or not marry amoi/awek ?

Married with kids, always have excuse not to work extra hours. Need to bring kids to _____(fill up yourself)

Living with someone you cannot leave will make you more mature, more mellow, in my observation. I have school mates not married, age 40 still childish.

If you got money, lots of money then both life is not a problem.
Single with money you can employ someone to take care of you and pay for good medical care to stay healthy for longer.
Married but to money if you are healthy you have to take care of your wife. If your wife is healthier then you have to see her suffering to take care of you, but it won't happen if you got money.

I think I can save more money being single.