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romuluz777
post Jul 27 2023, 03:40 PM

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Stay single is better.

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post Jul 27 2023, 03:41 PM

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QUOTE(KevProp @ Jul 27 2023, 03:34 PM)
if oofff mati terus is still ok

but what if u got some illness that drag you years and need a lot of care, attention and support?
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What if the partner or spouse die before the person ? back to square one. no difference.
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post Jul 27 2023, 03:41 PM

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QUOTE(Hades76 @ Jul 27 2023, 03:36 PM)
Getting married is way better than dying alone.

To your question, how sure are you that getting married wont enrich your life as well.

We are social creatures. We are not designed to live alone. At the end years, 60's 70's, how many of your yumcha buddies will be around or lepak with you. Most of the time you'll be alone.

Anyway, being with someone, making your other half happy, has its own fulfillment.
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post Jul 27 2023, 03:42 PM

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if got 100mil then got choice to get married and can have kids.. or stay single...

if below 500k net worth , can marry but dun membiak membebankan rakyat jelata dan gomen madani...

not fair for kids as well...
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post Jul 27 2023, 03:42 PM

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if a poll is done, staying single will still get the higher number of votes.
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post Jul 27 2023, 03:44 PM

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If you have to ask this question, means you are not ready for married life so stay single.
When you are ready, you will know.
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post Jul 27 2023, 03:47 PM

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QUOTE(happysalad @ Jul 27 2023, 02:25 PM)
is it better to marry or stay single?

marriage is a lifetime commitment to another person, and another family.

We have not explored the different possibilities to be offered by the world. ppl with different characters, different career opportunities, etc.

If you are a person longing for freedom and flexibility, would you still get married with the person who you have been together for many years (more than 5 years)?
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u can always not married
or try the same type of partner thumbsup.gif

QUOTE(g5sim @ Jul 27 2023, 02:30 PM)
Stay happy salad.
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QUOTE(darosha @ Jul 27 2023, 02:40 PM)
if you dont have anyone you love sexually
then just stay single then
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QUOTE(acbc @ Jul 27 2023, 02:41 PM)
Marriage is a life partner contract. If unable to follow or maintain, better don't commit.
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post Jul 27 2023, 03:50 PM

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QUOTE(KevProp @ Jul 27 2023, 03:34 PM)
if oofff mati terus is still ok

but what if u got some illness that drag you years and need a lot of care, attention and support?
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post Jul 27 2023, 03:50 PM

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QUOTE(N9484640 @ Jul 27 2023, 03:44 PM)
If you have to ask this question, means you are not ready for married life so stay single.
When you are ready, you will know.
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I second this...
Just enjoy ur single life
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post Jul 27 2023, 03:59 PM

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the best place to feel loneliness is old folks home n palliative care in hospitals....go talk to the patients there....some r single for life.... n ask them how they feel about being single....
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post Jul 27 2023, 04:19 PM

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apparently you asked this because of pressure to married. people are just too focus to live in other's expectation.
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post Jul 27 2023, 04:20 PM

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QUOTE(abhipraaya @ Jul 27 2023, 03:41 PM)
What if the partner or spouse die before the person ? back to square one. no difference.
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That is a possibility 50-50

But if you are single? it is 100%

I am amazed by those who wish how and when they will die. I mean come on, how do you even control that? Unless you take you own life which of course is not a very good thing to do.
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post Jul 27 2023, 04:23 PM

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As a Buddhist, my opinion is:
Get married, unless you want to be a monk.

poco loco gives you a good reason why it is good to get married...
QUOTE(poco loco @ Jul 27 2023, 03:14 PM)
but to stay single till the end will be dificult nearing end part....
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post Jul 27 2023, 04:24 PM

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QUOTE(fantasy1989 @ Jul 27 2023, 03:50 PM)
sendiri find truck-kun
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that is commit suicide which is out equation no matter you are married or not
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post Jul 27 2023, 04:30 PM

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Since this is serious kopitiam, what is the reason you're asking this? Hypothetical or based on your experience?

Marriage is never the goal in this modern era unlike the olden days. The goal is to be in love and stay in love. Marriage is a by product of that.

So are you in love or not?

This post has been edited by cucumber: Jul 27 2023, 04:31 PM
poco loco
post Jul 27 2023, 04:32 PM

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QUOTE(river.sand @ Jul 27 2023, 04:23 PM)
As a Buddhist, my opinion is:
Get married, unless you want to be a monk.

poco loco gives you a good reason why it is good to get married...
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oh ya forget to mention...
i am a free thinker

even after merid and got kids your ending is not guarantee a good 1 though

This post has been edited by poco loco: Jul 27 2023, 04:33 PM
fourzee
post Jul 27 2023, 04:33 PM

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If you are getting married for sex - you are in for a big disappointment.


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post Jul 27 2023, 04:35 PM

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QUOTE(fourzee @ Jul 27 2023, 04:33 PM)
If you are getting married for sex - you are in for a big disappointment.
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ya this i agree....
i sleep with my EX partner for 3 years also.......sometimes rather fap to porn better
poco loco
post Jul 27 2023, 04:38 PM

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my circle of ppl, more to unhepiness from my point of view....
so i kepohchi ask them.....turn out is something that rhyme like,,tradition la,felt completed la,done thier part oh humanity la...etc


after i step back and see...its the parent own selfishness jer

so i decided to do my part
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post Jul 27 2023, 04:40 PM

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marry rich... else no point...

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