Just ignore her and do not give her any money . If possible ask your mum not to give to. Force her out of comfort zone

Once she desperate to buy something she will get a job.
Hopefully she don't have credit card

so free

ask her to play shopee to collect more coins lah

shake shake shake...shopee shopee shopee

This^^^^

Meleis way to fix it thru marriage, cinis may not like it but having real responsibilities pushes some people for the better

She wants a family. How pretty is she? Can she take care of kids? Looking for a partner to build a nest with

What is her hobby beside scrolling those app?

u are facing generation shift, may i know how old your gap between her ?

yes she produce result and earn her degree with repeat that is perfectly normal because degree will show people true colour that it come with suicide thought and desperation as a phase before growing into more human.

people like her wont want to stay active with outside activity, i fully understand that as well due to traumatic degree time , she probably feel burden or waste of time going with someone outside

she resign after 6 month, u need someone around her age or her close social friend to talk with her, there is nothing u can do

to bring someone change their life , it would be very difficult, generally to say repeated student dont have much greater in later life due to everyone moving at flash speed and ''stomped her'' along the competition way that loss her motivation to live

is she that type of girl who love anime and game also ? make sense if she cosplay and saw her at cf 2024

anyway did she have family parent problem also ? that contributed to her mental well being also

how old she is ? 29 ? she probably worry whether to marry or not because once it hit 35-40 life changed

got inheritance issue ?



TLDR


Traumatic past make her what she become today and some existing family / personal issue should solve as soon as possible

the only way to improve herself is not to bring competition thing to her and bring her someone around her age , around her level and give them space to talk

Zhut her so that she got the motivation to go outside

Must be more than 25% body fat. Even sleep at Chow kit also need to maintain body shape la.

This sounds like the solution. TS can try.

Hi TS your sister is addicted to contents. This addiction is like a drug it already alter her brain pattern and she won't be able to focus much less work. Solution is to remove the hp and all electronics. She will suffer withdrawal symptoms but later will improve. China is doing it lol. Some people do all that but they can still work and perform well. They can separate their life between work and play, each different attitude and personality. Your sister probably been spoiled since young and thus she doesn't learn to stop indulging herself and control her impulse. Sadly no easy way to help her. Even if you stop giving her money and kick her out, she will take easy way out like sell body to make ends meet and buy a new phone. You as brother did your best, your parents is the wrong failed in teaching their daughter.

My younger sister also play games until 2am watch anime discord etc mostly because influenced by me when young but she excel in uni 4.0 cgpa the entire way and got herself into a good company earning good money and my parents pamper her very much now. She got all sorts of gadgets and gaming consoles bought using her own salary.

Another example is my wife friend's husband, also into anime go comic fiesta house full of figurines that's his hobby his friends all similar otakus but when work he performs. Now go to sg and earning a lot money but will indulge in expensive food and luxury goods with their own salary.

So it's not about the games and anime etc, it's the mindset. She just lazy to work because addicted to contents.

No

I kinda understand your situation TS, my youngest brother kinda like that too. Graduated 2 years ago I think, till now still goyang kaki at home. Me and my middle brother dunno what to do anymore. Help finding him job openings, my wife helped do his resume, talked to some friends who are willing to help interview..mom started to become annoyed also. Dad already retired. Mom will retire next year

None of us could afford to resign unless being fired. No matter how hard or dislike you are with the job, we have to secure a new job first then only resign the current. To date I am still working in my current company. Just one increment after working for 6 years.. I tried sending out resumes for half a year but hearing no feedback. Maybe I am not trying hard enough and don't have demandable skills.

I bet your sister will have higher chance because she is still young. Nowadays companies are seeking young grads and not older people like me. Srs post.. not trolling.

Lazy won't get bad karma la. Not like she doing bad thing to harm people in online or outside. After reach 30 age will more mature lor.

Hi TS, I suspect your sister have psychological issues.

It could be autism or something not permanent due to affect from surrounding

Better bring her to psychologist

must be lazy fk landwhale faceprob juior.

if hot being paiap daddy already no job no lazy issue

What is his course?

Why he happen like that?

She is 24.I am 32.

family parent problem.No.


Covid-19 too free at home.

Eat sleep wake up toilet

Repeat almost 3 years...


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This post has been edited by plouffle0789: May 18 2024, 06:33 PM

She is 24.I am 32.

family parent problem.No.


Covid-19 too free at home.

Eat sleep wake up toilet

Repeat almost 3 years...


Many contribute


Not break up from boyfriend.
No lost money scam....


Should be no psychological issue.....

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: May 18 2024, 06:34 PM