princess syndrome

need a stern slapping and/or pounding

Hi TS your sister is addicted to contents. This addiction is like a drug it already alter her brain pattern and she won't be able to focus much less work. Solution is to remove the hp and all electronics. She will suffer withdrawal symptoms but later will improve. China is doing it lol. Some people do all that but they can still work and perform well. They can separate their life between work and play, each different attitude and personality. Your sister probably been spoiled since young and thus she doesn't learn to stop indulging herself and control her impulse. Sadly no easy way to help her. Even if you stop giving her money and kick her out, she will take easy way out like sell body to make ends meet and buy a new phone. You as brother did your best, your parents is the wrong failed in teaching their daughter.

My younger sister also play games until 2am watch anime discord etc mostly because influenced by me when young but she excel in uni 4.0 cgpa the entire way and got herself into a good company earning good money and my parents pamper her very much now. She got all sorts of gadgets and gaming consoles bought using her own salary.

Another example is my wife friend's husband, also into anime go comic fiesta house full of figurines that's his hobby his friends all similar otakus but when work he performs. Now go to sg and earning a lot money but will indulge in expensive food and luxury goods with their own salary.

So it's not about the games and anime etc, it's the mindset. She just lazy to work because addicted to contents.

tell her do grab food/car, slowly see how...

What is his course?

Why he happen like that?

easy, she is yet to meet her Mr right. After she learn her life lesson, she will change. Everything is predefined. you no need to worry her much. mind your own business first. why said one??? everything is predetermined??? my big brother "he" said one. 

You're trying to 'solve' a problem of youth lying flat. Maybe go see how China / the rest of the world studies the topic of new generations disconnecting from society as a reference?

Actually, last time I logged into her JobStreet account and applied for jobs on her behalf. She was angry, but the next day she wasn't angry anymore.

We are siblings, after all. But unfortunately, she only worked for 6 months before resigning.
I think I should submit applications for her again.
No choice....

She does not want to buy a new phone. She has been working for 6 months but end up resign and has savings of around RM9000. However, she is still using her old phone.

What I dislike is when she sleeps upstairs in her room and then, after being woken up by my mother at 11:30 am, she comes downstairs and sleeps again in my parents' room on the ground floor.

Is she really that tired?
She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?
People outside are already lining up to buy lunch, and you're still sleeping?

She does not want to buy a new phone. She has been working for 6 months but end up resign and has savings of around RM9000. However, she is still using her old phone.

What I dislike is when she sleeps upstairs in her room and then, after being woken up by my mother at 11:30 am, she comes downstairs and sleeps again in my parents' room on the ground floor.

Is she really that tired?
She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?
People outside are already lining up to buy lunch, and you're still sleeping?

You're trying to 'solve' a problem of youth lying flat. Maybe go see how China / the rest of the world studies the topic of new generations disconnecting from society as a reference?

It's depression. Srs.
Also PM her pic
It would be hard for TS since he's from a different generation. Srs.

But yeah, having little to no future outlook will cause this.
RtK felt the same during covid/mco

My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm.
She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.
She is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.(March 2023)

She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

Fortunately, her university lecturer helped her. I even asked her to check her university email. However, she kept ignoring her lecturer's inquiries and didn't want to reply.
July 2023,The subject result is out.She passed.
I also suggested she join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6 am, but she refused.
Normally, I wake up at 5:20 am or 5:30 am, and head straight to Hutan Bandar, arriving around 5:50 am.
Since Hutan Bandar opens at 6 am, few people arrive that early, and there are plenty of parking spaces available.
She joined a company in October 2023 but resigned in April 2024. She only worked for 6 months and is now jobless.

Now she has a formal university certificate.
She sleeps at home around 1 am or 3 am and usually wakes up around 11 am.

Sometimes she skips breakfast because she wakes up too late.
After eating lunch or dinner, she goes back to her room to play on her phone, including TikTok, Xiao Hong Shu, Bilibili, and Facebook, as well as online games. She sleeps at 2 am.
My mother never asks her to help cut vegetables or cook, even though I've already told my mother many times.
How can someone bring about change in their life?

Some women only marry by the age of 45.

Some women remain unmarried their whole lives.

So I am worried my sister.

Nowadays, many young people are not getting married like they did in the 80s or 90s.