bed action a few dates later

i don't want to ruin the potential future dates at that time. Anyway i ended up marrying one of them

Damn the girls you met all so bold. 1st and 2nd date already kiss.

need to choose wisely

Were they like you already know them for a while or only known them via dating app?

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Nov 10 2022, 05:41 PM

online dating app

but of course, i have chatted with them for a while before meeting them for the first time

Ok. 3rd person I know that dating app works and can lead to marriage. Thanks.

Sometimes, its worth the risk to be just a little bit forceful with a girl.

When I was first dating my current gf I know shes avoiding the kiss in the beginning. Other than that, we had lots of fun and clicked very well. A lot of laughing and by 3rd date, a lot of innocent touches. Its only at the end of the dates where she will suddenly become cautious and wanted to leave quickly.

(We always drove separately to the dates, so we will say goodbye at the dating venue itself.)

First two dates, she let me have a quick good night hug, but she will then quickly push me away and I let her. On the 3rd date, we did the same hug. But when she tried to push away, I didnt let go and planted a kiss on her lips instead. Then I let go. The date ended there with her looking quite flustered as she got to her car n drove away.

My gf later told me that that first kiss was a good move. Before, her initial view was that Im nice and fun, but she doesnt want/wasnt ready to be serious with me (i was probably going to be friendzoned). However, driving back from the first kiss, she said her heart was beating so fast n she couldnt stop thinking of me the whole night.

We became a couple soon after that.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Nov 11 2022, 12:44 PM

Still couple?
Shit la. I don't want so early already start kissing

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Nov 11 2022, 12:04 PM

I find this question rather sarcastic and hilarious at the same time.

I am asking is he still a couple with her? I am not being sarcastic.

For me, I don't want to start kissing so early. If thats the way to avoid friend zone, then yeah. No choice.

Reason is I want to take it slow. Cause I believe if slow more enjoyable then rushing.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Nov 11 2022, 10:54 AM

For me, I couldn't believe that kissing can avoid friend zone. First time hearing this though not totally illogical but seriously, who would have taught the girl secretly wanted to be pecked on the lips while showing signs of resisting it?

Come on ladies, don't show terbalik can ah?

Cause if you don't kiss her, likely she see you as a friend only. But if you kiss her, your intentions are clear. You are not her friend. You are her boyfriend/mate/FWB/future husband.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Nov 11 2022, 11:12 AM

Notes taken.

But it actually depends on both guy and girl. Some people just hold hands. Some hold hands, kiss. Some hold hands, kiss and sex. Depend on stage of of relationship, how comfortable both of them are, how lustful/horny they are.

yeah i agree, this works.

but mine is a opposite.
im a shy guy, even if my date wear sexy i get too embarrassed to look.
i generally dont talk horny, sex stuff.
be a true gentleman.

this works as well. reason being, the girl gets frustrated why you are "immune" to her.
why other guys are so easy to manipulate with sex, but you are "different".
They find it a challenge.
They will basically be the ones to initiate kisses / sex.
Usually girls jual mahal, but u can do the same as well.
i even had a girl who said to me " if u cant afford the hotel, i can pay for it", because ive been acting dumb about her "advances"

ive tried both methods. both works.
but i prefer the shy gentleman method, because im generally a shy guy.
so just using what i have to get the best results.

This post has been edited by quebix: Nov 11 2022, 11:41 AM

Haha yes still. She is a nice girl.

Btw I didnt meet her via an app tho.

I was introduced to her by a mutual gf friend at a social function. And both of us know about each others existence before that due to the mutual gf. I always thought she was very attractive in the photos Ive seen of her before n was quite excited to finally meet her in person (but of course played it cool).

We got to talk and I then got her number (using some silly excuse). Then it was about a month of texting every few days of nonsensence topics before we agreed on our first date. After the first date we texted daily. There was definite chemistry from my POV.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Nov 11 2022, 11:46 AM

I have known many guys pursuing a girl for months and even years..only to get the friend/brother treatment at the end and the girl go to another man. You dont want that. Life is too short in my opinion to be wasting time like that.

Where did you kiss her? In the car/car park?

Her car was parked on the street. So it was between the restaurant entrance n her car.

Btw for the dates she refused to be in same car with me...she recognise the danger. 😄

Fyi..a girl in love is very lusty

If she is not lusty for u, then she may not yet be in love with u.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Nov 11 2022, 12:14 PM