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redracer2004
post Nov 9 2022, 11:32 AM

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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Nov 9 2022, 11:00 AM)
Wow virgin! Then this thread should be useful for your future reference 😉

My advice is dont be too slow and steady. Of course, u dont junp and kiss out of the blue..a girl will think you are a sex offender. But if you are too slow, you might not get the girl n have wasted time, money n emotion.
Im not a pro n still chicken at heart, but below is my MO ideally:

1st Date : Light touching and hug n good night peck on the cheek

2nd Date : As 1 but add hold hands and look for kiss opportunity, go for it.

3rd Date: As 2 but definitely go for kiss if couldnt do at 2. Potentially here can escalate to bedroom but that could be at date 4 n onwards.

Some things I learned over the years:

1. Girls like assertive n bold men..it doesnt pay to be chicken
2. A girl who likes you like to be kissed by you
3. If a girl has gone 2 to 3 dates with you, they either like you or is just taking advantage of you. Either way go for the kiss.
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Let's see.

1st Date: Light touching at most. With people all meeting on Social Media and Dating Apps, you won't want to go in so fast and not see who they really are.

2nd Date: Maybe can hold hands if things go well. Remember, depending on what kind of chic you are out with, you DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT initiate any further advances IF SHE DID NOT INITIATE FIRST. A friend of mine tried too hard to initiate advances on 2nd date thinking is OK but he didn't know the girl is really trying to keep it slow.

3rd Date: If she kisses you, then you can kiss her back on the forehead. Don't do CPR style first unless this kiss happened in 2nd Date.

I agree to the above on
1. Girls like bold and assertive men but DON'T NEED TO BE FORCEFUL. Things happen naturally, let it happened.
2. Agreed totally.
3. Most girls nowadays straight up face reject 2nd and beyond dates IF THEY FEEL not comfortable with you. AND NO, if after 1st Date, nothing happened, doesn't mean it's bad. Can be the girl still observing.
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post Nov 11 2022, 10:42 AM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Nov 11 2022, 10:16 AM)
Still couple?
Shit la. I don't want do early to start kissing sad.gif
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I find this question rather sarcastic and hilarious at the same time.
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post Nov 11 2022, 11:09 AM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Nov 11 2022, 10:49 AM)
I am asking is he still a couple with her? I am not being sarcastic.

For me, I don't want to start kissing so early. If thats the way to avoid friend zone, then yeah. No choice.

Reason is I want to take it slow. Cause I believe if slow more enjoyable then rushing.
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For me, I couldn't believe that kissing can avoid friend zone. First time hearing this though not totally illogical but seriously, who would have taught the girl secretly wanted to be pecked on the lips while showing signs of resisting it?

Come on ladies, don't show terbalik can ah?
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post Nov 11 2022, 11:25 AM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Nov 11 2022, 11:12 AM)
Cause if you don't kiss her, likely she see you as a friend only. But if you kiss her, your intentions are clear. You are not her friend. You are her boyfriend/mate/FWB/future husband.
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