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post Mar 7 2021, 11:02 PM

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QUOTE(justapawn @ Mar 7 2021, 04:52 PM)
However, meeting up or not thats another story and another level.
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ive chatted quite a few indian girls
usually they're flaky...even flakier than chinese i think
if those girls mention they don't know what they're looking for on the app
usually, its a waste of time.
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post Mar 9 2021, 01:53 AM

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I just had another Coffee Meet Bagel experience last night,
dated a 21 year old local chinese mix girl, sweet and seemingly promiscuous as well, she told me she wanna move out of malaysia because its just so much things she couldn't do at such a conservative country, at her young age i don't expect her to settle down early (even though her mouth says i wanna find a serious relationship).

It's a refreshing experience, cause i've dated CMB:
-auditor
-property valuer
-customer servicer met at Nu Sentral?
etc (maybe have deleted their numbers)
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post Mar 9 2021, 04:02 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 7 2021, 11:02 PM)
ive chatted quite a few indian girls
usually they're flaky...even flakier than chinese i think
if those girls mention they don't know what they're looking for on the app
usually, its a waste of time.
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Some girls are just too passive, waiting for someone they like to pursue them desperately while they just sit back relax and enjoy the attention. But many guys will get to know them a bit longer before they really take action and there are plenty of fish in the sea.

QUOTE(Guenhwyvar @ Mar 7 2021, 10:05 PM)
Thanks for your advice, I'm just sharing some of the girl's response for laughs. I mean definitely not a serious material if she that's her reply.  laugh.gif
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Some girl just too scare to invest their time to know a guy better after experiencing a lot of desperate people in Tinder.
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post Mar 9 2021, 04:18 PM

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QUOTE(justapawn @ Mar 9 2021, 04:02 PM)
Some girls are just too passive, waiting for someone they like to pursue them desperately while they just sit back relax and enjoy the attention. But many guys will get to know them a bit longer before they really take action and there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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Ive tried a few voice calls during mco 2.0
total added up around 40 mins ish
when she turned out on date, its not my type physically obviously but she's chattable.

Where some girls , i hit it off with just 10 mins convo, two days later we already on first date, and she's my type and sweet.

There's a range, where you dont want to invest too much time to build investments.

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post Mar 9 2021, 04:29 PM

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QUOTE(sweet_pez @ Feb 26 2021, 09:38 AM)
So much win there.
Actually app creators should come out with something that doesn't have any photo. Options based on location, but matching ie. through interest, hobbies etc.

There will be no judgment or bias, and users can approach each other with a more open mind. If users themselves wanna DM their photo, they can do that.

There should be something more genuine in the market. Otherwise i always feel these apps are very superficial - but just my personal opinion je.
That's not possible! You just haven't met the right one.
Look around you - there could be options too  nod.gif ie. ex college mates, friend's friend/ sister(s), gym (if you go) etc
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No photos doesnt work. even if it does it will be for a very niche market which i doubt would be profitable.

Its unfortunate but people do judge a book by its cover, and if you dont liek the cover, you wont even read the story....

Heck I got attracted to my wife at first sight due to her having a pretty face and a ridiculously hot body...

QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 1 2021, 12:12 AM)
this covid can give your advantage
i just had 2 tinder dates on last saturday

one girl, just stay nearby me, she came out because she felt bored because of covid
second girl, she purposely mrt from cheras to sunway putra, 23 years old quirky nerdy girl

i arranged two girls on same day.

so, play along and swipe more.
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You seems to be playing the numbers game. Its the right direction to go actually... swipe 100 and you will get 10, swipe 10, you might get 1... swipe 2.. good luck to u.

To do this you have to be outgoing and not the shy/takut malu type.
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QUOTE(MeToo @ Mar 9 2021, 04:34 PM)
You seems to be playing the numbers game. Its the right direction to go actually...  swipe 100 and you will get 10, swipe 10, you might get 1... swipe 2.. good luck to u.

To do this you have to be outgoing and not the shy/takut malu type.
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i mean im not the richest and best looking guy out there
those little things like good at texting, photo angles can add up to advantage.
i just got accussed of dressing poor last night, i wear a blazzer with slipper on lmao
i can get shy during first half n hour meet or few mins initial call

it has been warm up exercises for me...

QUOTE(MeToo @ Mar 9 2021, 04:29 PM)
No photos doesnt work. even if it does it will be for a very niche market which i doubt would be profitable.

Its unfortunate but people do judge a book by its cover, and if you dont liek the cover, you wont even read the story....

Heck I got attracted to my wife at first sight due to her having a pretty face and a ridiculously hot body...
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women are attracted to guys with good face/ style, its just politically incorrect for them to admit those
my date last night specifically said she likes guys who have tatoos and dress well.
she says if she dress feminine, why she cannot expect the guy to dress better too.
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post Mar 9 2021, 05:03 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 9 2021, 04:42 PM)
women are attracted to guys with good face/ style, its just politically incorrect for them to admit those
my date last night specifically said she likes guys who have tatoos and dress well.
she says if she dress feminine, why she cannot expect the guy to dress better too.
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Not having a good face/hot bod, i usually get my feet into the door by being witty. Then being a good conversationalist, intelligent, sharing vision/dream blah the usual "interesting guy" usually work.

For those girls who doesnt seem interested/no chemistry, cut it off early and dont waste time.
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QUOTE(justapawn @ Mar 9 2021, 04:02 PM)
Some girls are just too passive, waiting for someone they like to pursue them desperately while they just sit back relax and enjoy the attention. But many guys will get to know them a bit longer before they really take action and there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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Had that experience during 2008-2016

Most girls i CMB from friendster and facebook

After continuous failure i left the whole dating game 4 good since

Had yet 2 found any active and chatty partnerships
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QUOTE(skylinelover @ Mar 10 2021, 03:53 PM)
After continuous failure i left the whole dating game 4 good since

Had yet 2 found any active and chatty partnerships
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how would you define failures, girls who are not down for LTR? Or its just bad quality of people in general.
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QUOTE(skylinelover @ Mar 10 2021, 03:53 PM)
Had that experience during 2008-2016

Most girls i CMB from friendster and facebook

After continuous failure i left the whole dating game 4 good since

Had yet 2 found any active and chatty partnerships
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To be honest to you, I have met quite many girls from dating apps. Meeting them for the first time is not difficult. The problem is maintaining the relationship. They are meeting other people as well. It doesn't mean they will definitely choose you when both of you meet. Be realistic and not desperate. Girl smell it.

QUOTE(justapawn @ Mar 10 2021, 09:59 PM)
To be honest to you, I have met quite many girls from dating apps. Meeting them for the first time is not difficult. The problem is maintaining the relationship. They are meeting other people as well. It doesn't mean they will definitely choose you when both of you meet. Be realistic and not desperate. Girl smells it.
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QUOTE(justapawn @ Mar 10 2021, 09:59 PM)
To be honest to you, I have met quite many girls from dating apps. Meeting them for the first time is not difficult. The problem is maintaining the relationship. They are meeting other people as well. It doesn't mean they will definitely choose you when both of you meet. Be realistic and not desperate. Girl smell it.
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met a 23 year old ah lian two weeks ago
just now got a text from her today she said 'purposely' ghosted me because ''casually seriously'' dating this guy
i mean its very likely the guy promises monogamy with her in order to have sex with her
therefore can pretty much tell these younger females, they're not stable at age 18-25.
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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 10 2021, 10:06 PM)
met a 23 year old ah lian two weeks ago
just now got a text from her today she said 'purposely' ghosted me because ''casually seriously'' dating this guy
i mean its very likely the guy promises monogamy with her in order to have sex with her
therefore can pretty much tell these younger females, they're not stable at age 18-25.
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I believe quite many girls don't mind trading sex with guys for their love, attention and care. 18 to 25 is the age range of young and dangerous. There are woman in thirties who are wild and outgoing as well.
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QUOTE(justapawn @ Mar 10 2021, 10:36 PM)
I believe quite many girls don't mind trading sex with guys for their love, attention and care. 18 to 25 is the age range of young and dangerous. There are woman in thirties who are wild and outgoing as well.
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there are assholes who leave girls after having sex with once or few times with the promise of 'relationship'
it's just terrible for a girl, that's why they call us bad boy = assholes, which is different thing lol
women in after mid 30s if they're still single and 'taking care of their body' plus strong successful career
they're very likely to find a fuckboy or handsome guy
just look at Elva Tsiao taiwan as example.
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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 10 2021, 10:52 PM)
there are assholes who leave girls after having sex with once or few times with the promise of 'relationship'
it's just terrible for a girl, that's why they call us bad boy = assholes, which is different thing lol
women in after mid 30s if they're still single and 'taking care of their body' plus strong successful career
they're very likely to find a fuckboy or handsome guy
just look at Elva Tsiao taiwan as example.
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You remind me of my ex-boss

She super hyper even 10 years older

Mid 40s and still fukble

I did not know that directly from her but from other department gossiping heads that are close 2 her

The only obvious thing i know is she every 2 years change new toyota car

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QUOTE(skylinelover @ Mar 11 2021, 08:40 AM)
You remind me of my ex-boss

She super hyper even 10 years older

Mid 40s and still fukble

I did not know that directly from her but from other department gossiping heads that are close 2 her

The only obvious thing i know is she every 2 years change new toyota car

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every 2 years? Slow already lol
I always troll girls if they're younger, they can change bfs every few months. Its just not 'looking good' for their reputation.
Women always 'have it easy', its like no matter how much money you flash onto their faces, they're still the mating selector #ironfact
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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 11 2021, 10:31 AM)
every 2 years? Slow already lol
I always troll girls if they're younger, they can change bfs every few months. Its just not 'looking good' for their reputation.
Women always 'have it easy', its like no matter how much money you flash onto their faces, they're still the mating selector #ironfact
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Now we know why being THE GUY is very stresso

Unless you inherited valuables from your family treasure

Thats a mega head start hahahaha

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QUOTE(skylinelover @ Mar 11 2021, 01:28 PM)
Now we know why being THE GUY is very stresso

Unless you inherited valuables from your family treasure

Thats a mega head start hahahaha
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right, it's like having gameshark on ps console from the start
anyway, we're getting away from the thread topic
like i can see why there are very few guys willing to hustle on talking on chicks being a womanizer
they just think by having money and status they are able to attract EVERY single chick.
they can just be lazy and splash money think themselves like a king.
it's a wrong mindset.
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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Mar 11 2021, 01:41 PM)
right, it's like having gameshark on ps console from the start
anyway, we're getting away from the thread topic
like i can see why there are very few guys willing to hustle on talking on chicks being a womanizer
they just think by having money and status they are able to attract EVERY single chick.
they can just be lazy and splash money think themselves like a king.
it's a wrong mindset.
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Actually, to be honest, middle age rich man seldom go for dating website/apps to hook up. There are plenty of Vietnam/Thai/China escort in Malaysia. If you got the look and money, all these woman will even approach you, do all stuffs FOC.
Thus, why need the heck of time wasting in dating apps, having all those risk of scammers and ??? Sometimes, I think dating apps is just for those beta males like me.
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QUOTE(justapawn @ Mar 12 2021, 05:12 PM)
do all stuffs FOC.
I think dating apps is just for those beta males like me.
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majority of rich males are beta
having money doesn't make you inherently alpha
they're married men yes they control big decision at workplaces, but back home he been getting wrecked by his wife.
dating females can be costly, it doesn't matter its sugar baby or fuckbuddy

but also,
when you spend money onto women, you head is rewired differently and see women differently as well.
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I know this is a newbie stupid question. I've downloaded and try few dating apps such as Bumbee, OkCupid, and CMB. I just wonder do I need to purchase premium in order to chat with girls or just need to wait for someone to chat me?

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