Lol some of the girl's replies are so discouraging.

Me : What are you hobbies?

Her : Reading lo.

Me : ok..... 

ive chatted quite a few indian girls
usually they're flaky...even flakier than chinese i think
if those girls mention they don't know what they're looking for on the app
usually, its a waste of time.

Thanks for your advice, I'm just sharing some of the girl's response for laughs. I mean definitely not a serious material if she that's her reply. 

Had that experience during 2008-2016

Most girls i CMB from friendster and facebook

After continuous failure i left the whole dating game 4 good since

Had yet 2 found any active and chatty partnerships

To be honest to you, I have met quite many girls from dating apps. Meeting them for the first time is not difficult. The problem is maintaining the relationship. They are meeting other people as well. It doesn't mean they will definitely choose you when both of you meet. Be realistic and not desperate. Girl smells it.

met a 23 year old ah lian two weeks ago
just now got a text from her today she said 'purposely' ghosted me because ''casually seriously'' dating this guy
i mean its very likely the guy promises monogamy with her in order to have sex with her
therefore can pretty much tell these younger females, they're not stable at age 18-25.

right, it's like having gameshark on ps console from the start
anyway, we're getting away from the thread topic
like i can see why there are very few guys willing to hustle on talking on chicks being a womanizer
they just think by having money and status they are able to attract EVERY single chick.
they can just be lazy and splash money think themselves like a king.
it's a wrong mindset.

I met my partner on Tinder 2 years ago and we are now married. Tried OKcupid, CMB before I met my partner, I would say it's really LUCK.

Whenever there's single friends seeking for love, I will just ask them try dating apps and I think this is gonna be a trend.

My tips will be dont chat too long online, try your best to meet up within 2 weeks once matched, so you know whether he/she worth your time or not.

I would also say, dont travel more than 20 km one way to meet someone. Ive a girl she stays setia alam, we're both at least 50km apart, i told her to meet me somewhere in middle.

some got married out of nowhere (happens to muslim girl, 'tunang')
some moved back to own country
some got serious relationship (happen more to coronavirus season because girls want more security now)
some got semi casual relationship (she's offered relationship after having sex)
etc

bottom line is i don't do LDR, and any relationship less than 6 months is not considered a serious ones.
you want to find a quality ones, they have to pass my test of time.

recently there was one tinder girl written she's looking for a tall and buff guy simping for her
they can be bored, but yourself cant be bored. Because you're the one who's chasing them 'initially', you've to do most of the work (texting, logistics etc)
my favourite line's, ''what are you looking for here?''
always screen out time wasters.

just chatted with a 22 year old amoi nurse from tinder
i would say all platforms have possibility of scammed loh

to all the users here, just wan to ask... have you ever skipped 1-2 days didnt reply the person or end the conversation first thereafter msg 1-2 days later? I notice if skip even 1 day, the feeling toward the person can be different already...

i seen some dating advice from youtube is like, they said no need to message everyday, quality > quantity. But this method didnt specifically say is for the person you have met or for online dating.

Logically speaking, i feel is OK to text once a while when you met some one randomly, but in dating app, somehow must keep the conversation going and not skipping 1-2 days only reply.

Hope you can understand where i m coming from....

if a girl doesnt bother to reply on time restraining apps like CMB, they're just looking for attentions or aren't serious to go out with any guys
most girls already made their decisions when they see your photos, all they require to meet up is some comfort and talks
girls will also block you when you do nothing wrong, or they are feeling insecure in general that you don't reply them on time or they sense you with multiple girls.

DO NOT USE DATING APPS if you are NOT good-looking. I am serious.

im no way good looking or rich,
i been using 8 different apps at the same time
got laid left and right, even during this pandemic
what is your general excuse?

how is it different? all relationships should start with casual dating first.
without testing the cars, how would you know the car is suitable for you.
unless if you were talking about muslim culture

I've been hesitant to question the need to pay premium for dating agencies, or even to get premium features on the apps.... But given my gender, I may come off as inconsiderate for men's circumstances glad to know others share same sentiment!

In my experience back then (as lady looking for men), I did encounter lots of bad profiles (scammers, hookup, undesirable, duplicate across platforms,...) But I simply worked within the free versions -- browsed 10 per day on CMB, if got mood then look into suggestions, never had the urge to pay to use more...

It's just so time consuming to engage with strangers to me, I just took my time lah. Already 30yo, +1 or 2 more years no difference ady

I don't mean it as a red flag against the guy, but was referring to the "10 profiles per day" limitation by CMB that a duplicate profile would be wasting the quota. That said, I used multiple apps too and was also part of the problem lol.

Could be scammers.

So far I have like 4 active apps in use. Tan Tan, PakTor, Boo and CMB.

CMB seems most legit in terms of profiles and photos.

PakTor a lot of fake Thai and China Mei.

Tan Tan also got China Mei but they don't reply.

Boo has many many random stuffs but scammers also exist there.

For me, I have been chatting with one I met on CMB ever since I had the app back like 1 month ago.

She seems to fit my criteria and all but only set back is she taking things extremely slow, so I gotta follow the pacing too.

Cmb have been killed off. Last time you need to wait 24h before who liked you will be shown. Now, even after 24h, won't be shown. To be shown, you need to pay for it. I emailed customer service and that's what they told me.