I have tried fb dating , get matched but usually no reply

have you tried cupid corner CC here?

never because i know the numbers of guys more than girls... so i will take my chances elsewhere

From a female point of view:

1. Dating apps and FB dating, even Love classifieds - lots of scammers or married/non single men

2. Usually for sex only, not genuinely looking for a relationship

3. Modus operandi for scammers is some good looking guy, usually gf/wife died few years ago and now he's ready for a relationship. Usually located overseas, US or Singapore and more than willing to move to Malaysia for you, ha ha

Why is it difficult to find a chatting platform like IRC last time? Or is there one but I don't know about it?

Have you gone out with guys here. Dont need to disclose their id
How's your experiences so far with online dating.

i think very minority of guys are looking for relationship from the start, everything is fast paced nowadays, there's lack of incentives for guys to 'move slow' because there is always bigger shark out there.

I'm hoping to find a decent girl to get into a relationship but seems its going to be tough and I don't understand why girls after being matched starts to ghost and so on. Well probably they are bots too. Don't think I would find anyone but I'll just keep trying.

a lot of girls they just shopping on the app la
maybe they swiped a few times, or they swiped and had 100 matches easily, no time to reply or lack incentive to reply since majority of guys text the same boring thing...

Yeah that's true. Just play along that's all.

this covid can give your advantage
i just had 2 tinder dates on last saturday

one girl, just stay nearby me, she came out because she felt bored because of covid
second girl, she purposely mrt from cheras to sunway putra, 23 years old quirky nerdy girl

i arranged two girls on same day.

so, play along and swipe more.

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Mar 1 2021, 12:22 AM

Yeah.... thanks for your encouragement!

I'm just starting to wonder if these kind of apps are actually helpful or its just people to have some fun/shopping.

just dont spend on sites that guarantee you finding serious partners, a lot of the matches they gave you are those who are 'working for the company', so there's always trappy element there, regardless dating app or meet in real life

I believe there are sincere and genuine males out there (even in LYN) who are serious in looking for real relationship, not those that you have listed.
Maybe you want to chat more to find out about the other person, and learn to identify if it is scammer type, con type or those sex maniac type from those genuine type.

I do, which is probably why they got filtered LOL...

I have, a few but nothing came out of it?

Lol some of the girl's replies are so discouraging.

Me : What are you hobbies?

Her : Reading lo.

Me : ok.....

answer: doraemon/erotica/animal discoveries

don't give boring answer, give them choices to select.

Lol with that kind of response its just a waste of time.

ping a few more times.
she will change her mind at anytime

Suprisingly, i did better with CMB this week (after i changed main profile pic into a casual formal suit dressing style chilling for a drink), had both numbers with indian girls, set an evening date with one of them on this coming sunday.

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Mar 5 2021, 11:40 PM

You need to be patience. Normally those girls I chatted with will surely give Whatsapps number to me. If you sincerely chat with them, normally they will reply. However, meeting up or not thats another story and another level.

Thanks for your advice, I'm just sharing some of the girl's response for laughs. I mean definitely not a serious material if she that's her reply.