How about guys?

they use the "cooling" period of time to make her ex bf misses her, when the time comes dont be surprised why these girls suddenly being cold or ghost you. Cause they just want an emotional tampon to cry onto.

How to get such girl that willing to listen to u?

Not only that. If u ever managed to get a gf that is treating u as a rebound, good luck becoming the one that receives hot and cold patches at the same time. Very weird.

If you want to make anyone to listen to you, your life is going to be chaos, my solution has always been letting people come into my life, if they dont want thats fine, cause i will keep finding people that resonate with my mindsets

I will just put in minimal effort until they hooked, put more hooks onto other fishes not only one fish, even if they're hooked onto you, you still want to make sure they're invested into the relationship if not its matter of time that its going to end. Focus on other parts of self development too.

Correct on the self dev part but for me, no use put so much hooks in to the sea also. Why I am saying this? Cause at the end, there's still someone you prefer more than the other from that sea of fishes that you threw your hook in and IF you did not get that PREFERRED ONE, you will end up just keep thinking about her and may casually treat those that accepts you like, cincai only kinda feel.

If you say about deep chemistry, maybe but i dont think im capable of oneitis. But sexual chemistry, there will always be more, i try to be objectively nice to all the females that i chose, to meet up with.

Let's just say we don't go deep chemistry, we go for looks. Maybe ONE of them actually looks damn fine in your eyes compared to the others and you start ranking them. End up, you will still focus more on the higher ranks ones.

that depends on location too,
sometimes i just lazy to travel ie an hour car drive to meet the girl that i really like, or it can just be different schedules that we couldn't meet

sometimes i like petite, big titts, or taller...
many flavors to be chosen

Trust me, when it comes to the above, some men are willing to do it for the girl they think are best fit for them who checks most of their boxes.

a guy thinks she's best fit for him
but the girl may not necessarily think the same
i already got used to this cause women feelings can change anytime
they just got way too many options compare to any guys
if a girl i really like dont want to or busy meet up
I will always try to schedule with other few girls

a lot of times i travel interdistrict so i will make the best decision for my time usage

Can a guy really find a girl on dating app to replace his ex after break up?

That's actually good la. Can maximise the time, money and effort spent.

Gal and guy go dating apps after break up is not for move on.....

There is few reason :

- Revenge... Cause online relationship wont easily true in short period.
- Sex ...... It help to forget the pain ......
- Self Cure the Broken Heart ...... Need find some caring no matter from who to patch back the scar .....

OK, nowadays a lot of people go find their other halves on Social Media (FB, IG, Twitter, Tiktok) and Dating Apps.

When you first match a person and start chatting whether is on FB / IG or Dating Apps, there is a certain expectation going on.

Come on, a random guy adding a girl on FB and started chatting her up. Don't tell me the guy wanna be friends only right? *Whispers to ear - LIAR!*

Now comes the fun part, after you two have started chatting for a while, maybe few weeks to a month things will start to warm up right? (If it doesn't I guess one side might be not interested?)

So my question is, in the perspective of a guy, How do I know if the girl is showing interest or not without actually going out? Cause most times, when you start conversations, it doesn't really lead to going out yet so how do we gauge if a girl is already interested / invested in the guy?

TBH, I had a bad experience of going out with a girl from dating app and then she said she treats me like a brother only after she refused to go out with me on the 2nd date.

So let's share the signs to all guys here so they don't make wrong judgment.

kena the “brother zone”，move on to the next one then..

if ok sure can ajak for more outing sessions..

tell her you ready to discuss anything else after seggs

"So my question is, in the perspective of a guy, How do I know if the girl is showing interest or not without actually going out?"

The answer is, unfortunately, you can't know, whether from the perspective of the guy or girl.

The reason is: the medium of communication is texts, or even voice/video calls, of ascending effectiveness. Still, video call is inferior to in-person getting together for a drink/meal.

The reason is when there's a physical person to person communication, there's the body language, facial expressions for interpretation. 95% of communication is visual. Believe it or not too, chemical exchange also takes place in terms of smell. Google "pheromones" to find out.

Texting is the poorest form of communication. If you had texted for a long time, you'd know misunderstanding often takes place too due to language use.

It works both ways: a person you text with, may appear unattractive to you, but on meeting up may prove otherwise.
Similarly the opposite can take place.

So the best bet is to go out at soon as one thinks the preliminaries have been completed.

Good luck.