Scammers all the way in those apps... Especially tantan, paktor or tinder.

I am landwhale too but luckily my bae didn't mind that much, just ask me go exercise and slowly reduce weight.

OK, nowadays a lot of people go find their other halves on Social Media (FB, IG, Twitter, Tiktok) and Dating Apps.

When you first match a person and start chatting whether is on FB / IG  or Dating Apps, there is a certain expectation going on.

Come on, a random guy adding a girl on FB and started chatting her up. Don't tell me the guy wanna be friends only right? *Whispers to ear - LIAR!*

Now comes the fun part, after you two have started chatting for a while, maybe few weeks to a month things will start to warm up right? (If it doesn't I guess one side might be not interested?)

So my question is, in the perspective of a guy, How do I know if the girl is showing interest or not without actually going out? Cause most times, when you start conversations, it doesn't really lead to going out yet so how do we gauge if a girl is already interested / invested in the guy?

TBH, I had a bad experience of going out with a girl from dating app and then she said she treats me like a brother only after she refused to go out with me on the 2nd date.

So let's share the signs to all guys here so they don't make wrong judgment.

Man, all the ads saying dating ads are free free free... in the end, I still need to pay to see who like me... or am I doing something wrong here???  :confused: