I definitely learned quite a few things from my time so far in /k. Throughout the toxicity and superficiality that pervades this place, there are nuggets of gold that can be discovered, sifted out, picked up.

For that, and for some of the people I have come across and whose interaction with have enriched my life, I will always be thankful.

I am just sad at the wasted potential that could have been if Her Majesty was a more regular participant in this forum. The world constantly talks about class divides and the friction and contradictions that make up the relationship between the haves and have-nots.... so much communication, understanding and even positive initiatives could have taken place if Tuanku was made to feel more welcome, made to feel that she was not wasting her time or energies hanging out here or having to deal with punks with more bravado over the internet than sense and grey matter.

Often, the pipits complain that the gagaks, the pucungs, the burung hantus, the helangs are too distant from the common folk, too isolated and in their own bubbles to know and understand the problems and issues that we go through. But sometimes, it is the pipits who are their own worst enemy, who prevent understanding, empathy and compassion from blooming and taking place.

Ah well..... it is what it is....

I definitely learned quite a few things from my time so far in /k. Throughout the toxicity and superficiality that pervades this place, there are nuggets of gold that can be discovered, sifted out, picked up.

For that, and for some of the people I have come across and whose interaction with have enriched my life, I will always be thankful.

I am just sad at the wasted potential that could have been if Her Majesty was a more regular participant in this forum. The world constantly talks about class divides and the friction and contradictions that make up the relationship between the haves and have-nots.... so much communication, understanding and even positive initiatives could have taken place if Tuanku was made to feel more welcome, made to feel that she was not wasting her time or energies hanging out here or having to deal with punks with more bravado over the internet than sense and grey matter.

Often, the pipits complain that the gagaks, the pucungs, the burung hantus, the helangs are too distant from the common folk, too isolated and in their own bubbles to know and understand the problems and issues that we go through. But sometimes, it is the pipits who are their own worst enemy, who prevent understanding, empathy and compassion from blooming and taking place.

Ah well..... it is what it is....

Actually no one cares

But you seem to care a lot by your action to go thru all her posts

Why does it matter to anyone in the end if what she posts is true or not?

I dont see her going around attacking people or opening useless threads

Where you by any chance personally affected by what she posted?

But, why does she or anyone else, need to "validate" anything to anyone? I could easily say I have ½ a million ringgit at home, sitting in my safe, and sure, you'll be correct to challenge that I write a note next to my stash and post it here for your approval - but, what if your approval, or that of /k's in general, isn't important or worth attaining?

And, knowing how /k works, the minute I accede to your demand, you'll come up with another excuse to say "Oh, that money is your father's/uncle's/next door neighbour's tuition teacher's, and you're just posing". It will never end.

Just live and let live, I say. Whether or not it's real or not, she didn't scam you, you didn't lose time or money to her, and it's only a few lines of texts and a couple of bytes of code on an internet forum.

Life's too short, bro ... life's too short.

err i bukakked a few car tered and she will be there to share her opinion or two..the last was about a girl that to her looks like trans..not car or show-off related, but it kinda stuck in my head of how she would put down another human being eventho if that person is a trans..especially when she's not..

Here : https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopi...post&p=96518837

But, why does she or anyone else, need to "validate" anything to anyone? I could easily say I have ½ a million ringgit at home, sitting in my safe, and sure, you'll be correct to challenge that I write a note next to my stash and post it here for your approval - but, what if your approval, or that of /k's in general, isn't important or worth attaining?

And, knowing how /k works, the minute I accede to your demand, you'll come up with another excuse to say "Oh, that money is your father's/uncle's/next door neighbour's tuition teacher's, and you're just posing". It will never end.

Just live and let live, I say. Whether or not it's real or not, she didn't scam you, you didn't lose time or money to her, and it's only a few lines of texts and a couple of bytes of code on an internet forum.

Life's too short, bro ... life's too short.

I agree with what you wrote. Hence, it's baffling to read about your acceptance of the other chap's challenge, privately via PM notwithstanding. Did I miss anything?

Actually it does matter, and people should care.

Many people are desperate and sad history keeps repeating. We had cohab and pulautikus who built up trusts over the years from members first, then once trusts were granted, they ran away with the money.

Well you would say why so stupid giving money to them padan muka, because many members are just simple and gullible.

Please don't doxx me pulak

looks like this Kopitiam subforum on lowyat has a lot of orang sakit jiwa

Yes, we had a few dodgy people with good command of english a couple of years ago, and people believed them and some guys here whiteknighting them even after the evidences presented were very obvious lol

I’d see the circlejerkers here are all 2019 accounts, not sure if the date is a coincidence, but I’d take whatever I read here with a pinch of salt, even if they are cringy as hell.

Even I myself who came from a bottom M40 background, can say that most toxic people are in the M40. B40 might also have toxic people, but they are more ignorant than toxic, due to the upbringing and the condition of their social circles.

M40 has a lot of smart alecs who are in constant strife with fellow human beings, trying to one up another all the time.

That's why I'm tired of having 'friends' of this rung, detached from them and pursue my own life, do my own thing. I don't even bother with their so-called 'gathering' just to see where you are in life and start comparing again.

If I fare worse than them in life, they take opportunities to tease and roast, but if I fare better than them they become jealous and filled with hatred. Else you have to 'stay equal' with them, even though you know everyone is just being unproductive, talking shit all the time, and don't bother to improve in life.

In other words, you are being hated if you are better, you are laughed at if you are worse, and you won't grow if you are equal. You can't win.

Most middle class folks are very toxic and tend to shit post on forums. They feel good after winning a particular argument or having the last say in a particularly heated debate in the forums because they are constantly getting pijak by their bosses and pressured to spend on an expensive ride that they can barely afford just so that they can be viewed as successful in real life.

The rich people however are different. They are quick to apologize, less confrontational and do very little provocation or trolling in posts.

You can really tell who are the ultra wealthy on here. hksgmy is very level headed and calm. TheBornLoser is humble and quick to apologize to avoid feeding those trolls.

Those whom fan the flames or attack another fellow user are mostly middle class. They need to feel superior to someone because of their daily shitty existence.

cukur i still middle class can continue cucuk ppl for fun   

Yes, we had a few dodgy people with good command of english a couple of years ago, and people believed them and some guys here whiteknighting them even after the evidences presented were very obvious lol

I’d see the circlejerkers here are all 2019 accounts, not sure if the date is a coincidence, but I’d take whatever I read here with a pinch of salt, even if they are cringy as hell.

Actually it does matter, and people should care.

Many people are desperate and sad history keeps repeating. We had cohab and pulautikus who built up trusts over the years from members first, then once trusts were granted, they ran away with the money.

Well you would say why so stupid giving money to them padan muka, because many members are just simple and gullible.

Please don't doxx me pulak