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fu'house
post Mar 30 2020, 09:53 PM

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QUOTE(shuhuan @ Mar 30 2020, 11:57 AM)
I wasn't out looking but listening to what happened earlier. Husband feels ill want to claim mc. But his mother want to make use of this chance to see specialist. Btw, she been visiting many different dozen specialists from weekly to monthly basis as this is her favorite activity, definitely not because she is bodily sick. And docs have repeatedly told and confirms that she is bodily healthy. So they concludes that this behavior of abusing healthcare is part of her anxiety. And she will never ever seek mental help as she is a narcissist, imagines herself being a perfect person definitely have zero faults.

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So seems like he can feels her selfishness finally. And there is improvement that he starts denying and delaying her unnecessary demands.

She been asking him to get for her bread, bananas, eggs on daily basis while she refuse to go get it herself even though my house is next to a hypermarket. I hope she annoys him more to experience how I have been living with a selfish soul that can't be expected for any change.
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These texts and buying happen during the MCO?
TSshuhuan
post Mar 30 2020, 10:34 PM

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QUOTE(fu'house @ Mar 30 2020, 09:53 PM)
These texts and buying happen during the MCO?
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today while he was not home. and while he was already out, he finally buy all her things.

otherwise can everyday hear her question him, why cannot get own mother a banana a bread. then she will focus on how terrible he is to her, why everything is a no, never treat her properly as a mother. mother wants whatever must give whatever without fail then is a good son. then will ask her to go get those herself but she will say no, she commands who to get must get. then she will do shaming on him as a bad son. this is also the part i mean by selfish, and the way she threatens him to do it.

initial days of the mco he will complain to me about her, but i reject him to complain on me, because 1] i did not cause this situation, its him who wants to live with her. 2] if he cant handle her, what makes anyone think that i can do better. 3]no use to tell me, i can offer zero help. so he starts to complain to his siblings about her behaviour, which are the correct targets as they are the ones forgotten how hard it is to live with her. but then they also complain back to confiscate her phone already as she been phone bombing them about 1] wants to go back to her own house, but she is unwelcome by them. 2] she is so full of complains about how "ill treated" she is, when actually its the rare occasion that she got rejected demands.

as for myself now, i just glad that he can realize a bit of how i have been living with such woman, he have to realize that she cant be changed for the better even for one bit. she is too full of herself, definitely the opposite of angel. even now she still continues to refer herself as mama at my kid.

if he also thinks her demands and behaviours are unreasonable, then my relationship with him can be salvage as he do not understand my life at all before. in the past he always believed that his mother is an angel who wont bully me, there was so much distrust with him as he rather believe the one who gave birth to him. these days i even heard his mother on the phone refer me as that crazy thing he even heard her says that I am crazy woman ever since I seek treatment, so now confirm who got the devil mouth.

This post has been edited by shuhuan: Mar 31 2020, 12:16 AM
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post Apr 1 2020, 09:48 AM

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Maybe toMochika27 can help to shed some light about this situation/ thread thumbsup.gif

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