Well, its totally your call, you're the one who know her most here, we can only advise how u should think and act, the details you can keep it for yourself

But also 1 thing do keep in mind is the intimacy that she don't feel comfortable giving you, are you ok with that for the future to come?
I've seen many people like her seeking help as they can't stop feeling guilt when she having the intimacy even after marriage, not gonna judge anything
but I'm pretty sure if she can't get through the very surface intimacy part, it will be harder for her to go through the following stage,
and marriage is not the key to open her up to intimacy, then the lust might get u again, we're human after all.

Not discouraging you, but it's something worth thinking... we often thinks marriage is where we can bind us together, but its actually where the real test begun.

Ok, to me I think this is a positive progress atleast.. give her time to heal... but don't drag it too long as u know overthinking and negative advises from friends plays important role
in her decision making.

Ive not been in such an extreme case, dont think i can share anything of  much help

But the way i look at it is, unless she satisfy your sexual cravings, its not gonna end, even if you get back, it wont exactly solve the problem.

Nway, all the best bro, would buy you around to cheer you up if you are in MV .  lol

Well thats what you say, but if you are taking up the bait, all it needs is another girl.

Its not wrong accepting defeat that you cant do it, its only natural for guys to have a libido

Sorry but I need to be honest here

You r so stupid. Bear that in mind, when you r a man/woman who is currently in a serious relationship, do not be too nice to other opposite gender. It's something u can think logically, if it's not you who think u gonna get lucky, lust then the opposite gender will or accidentally fall in love.

Don't beg for her to come back. You need to move on.
Improve urself to be more trustworthy. Even if she come back, she will always think you still gonna repeat the same mistake in the future. I know how girls think or else when you do hv a massive fight with her she will raise the issue again and again since it will be unforgettable mistake for her.

Sorry to hear that btw

Good luck then. Don't repeat the same mistake again or worse than that.

Let me tell you something, a good woman/man is very hard to find. But When u get urself one, keep since you cannot find elsewhere twice.

I don't know if this has been suggested before, but you can try read more about conflict resolution with your partner according to her zodiac sign.

Even if it doesn't work out in the end, by understanding more about what makes her tick, could bring you closure and helps you deal with it and move on with lighter heart.

i'd buy a 500pc rubber band pack and grind the physio

Hi ts

I'm still awake..cant sleep becaus to much worry

Keje, jangan tak keje...

follow me TS. next year i wanna buy ps5 and 4k monitor or tv and play game nonstop till bleed and die .
hope the god understand my pain and take my soul instantly..

fuck this world.

physiotherapy for the acl ?

ruber bands are the best
combine a bunch and tie to grill/bedpost

My heart breaks after reading what you have been through @ page 4. I wish you a speedy recovery, and time will heal. We /k/ will be cheerleading for you (or is it just me?lol)! Jiayou

Morning. Had your breakfast?

One thing for sure ...never ever text a girl especially if she is a divorcee or in difficult marriage. One thing will lead to another...that's given.

If got time read this book "not just friends by shirley p. Glass".

Also betrayal is like a trauma similar to injury etc. She needs time.

Anyway if you guys are meant to be you are meant to be. Good thing is if you both are back together then it will be a stronger relation ship having purified by fire.

All the best dude.

When i was under depression before, sleep helps a lot. it take you off the problem for a while.

Give yourself some time.

Let time helas both of you.

If its meant to be, it will be.

I don't know whether it is helpful, but maybe you can try sharing what you are going thru with your mom? Reading pg4, I know you don't have the best relationship with your mom.. But maybe this is an opportunity to start communicating again and rebuilt a good relationship with your mom? Just a suggestion

If you are able to, may I suggest taking a hike in the mountains, go to the beach or have a walk in a big green park. I don't know about you but I find that some quiet time near nature always helps.

To you maybe not to her I would say a bright yes.

Anyway no normal person would start a casual relationship with the intention of infidelity.

We all have good intention but things ends up badly.

Anyway ask yourself why is she angry if not for your betrayal.

A lot of good people fall into this mistake. Good people like colleagues, friends , pastors, politician. 

Good u ended it .

I may be wrong in my assessment.

All the best lar har.....give her time.

Lol...are there any girls in lowyat forum?

Ohh btw guys perception on infidelity is sex....

Ladies can include emotional infidelity...which is your case.