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You got scammed.

I have a similar experience like you. This happen in Balakong, C180. She matched with me in TanTan and claimed that she stayed in Malaysia for few months, working in a lingerie shop with her aunt because her aunt married a Malaysian man.

So I chatted with her for few days and she offered me to have a drink somewhere close to her house (not sure whether that is true or not), turns out she has chosen C180.

When I met her in C180, she suggested to walk around the street and she guided me to the bar that she had partnered - 'W@M Wine @ More'.

So I asked for the menu and the waiter gave two sets of menu, one is a normal priced one and the other is wine menu, in blue colour. The wine ranges around RM180 to RM2000. Not sure whether the wine is over-priced or not since I rarely drink wine.

When the girl sees the menu, she asked the waiter for recommendations, not too bitter ones. Then the waiter recommends a RM1000ish wine. The girl chooses that.

When I saw her choice, I'm like why should I pay for so much for a wine?! Then I told her that I only brings RM200+ cash for that day. Then she showed a very pissed face. Then after some discussion, we chose RM572 wine.

Then the waiter brought the wine in and asked for payment. She did not have any intention of paying although she said that she will pay half of the price when she was ordering the wine.

She asked the waiter whether can pay through Alipay and the waiter say system down, only accept cash or bank in. So I pay RM150 in advance and we had our conversations. She just doesn't seem interested and she keep texting her phone and tactically angled for me to avoid looking. So after a while of conversation, she pushed me for the full payment as she said that it was very awkward that did not pay in full and sitting down and drinking the wine.

After that, i went to the CIMB ATM to withdraw some money out. (This is where I regret, I should have run at the time, but my pride and ego doesn't allow that *slap to the face*).

After withdrawing money, I went back and pay at the counter. We had a little conversation and we left after we finished the wine. She did not have any intention to hold any conversations longer and asked for good-bye.

After I went back home, still holding a little glimpse a hope, I texted her, asking for repayment back from her, but just as I expected, no replies. She might have unmatched/blocked me on TanTan and WeChat too. Any one here knows how to check it?

My friend bought 2 bottles
End up spend 2k+

hahahaha so many people kena con

U got chance to troll her while pretend to withdraw money
Damn!
Ego>anything

so in the end whats the full damage?
RM 572?

lessonntaufght
Always be a man, bring her the place you want.

pride preying is so effective against men lol, should instantly walk away the moment she picked $1000 wine.
if you didnt, it's fine, but her showing very pissed face because you're short of cash is a glaringly obvious red flag that something is wrong, you need to be blind to not see it, which you're not.
and you're out of your mind to "discuss" a cheaper wine, you're going way out of your way to entertain someone like this, someone's not interested in you and is showing it.
and still dare to have glimpse of hope after all of the above lol, i cant imagine what you're thinking.

look, to someone you barely know, dont think about spending more than $250, you can use that $250 to pay for happy ending instead, since the ultimate objective you involve yourself with the girl is to fuck her one day, now you gave a shit load of money and barely fucked, instead got showed pissed face, you could've got a few happy endings with that money.

few questions (answer honestly, since everyone is anonymous):
1. are you someone that's not popular with girls? girls hard to come by? thats why you acted this way in your story?
2. if you want to run away, is it really possible to do so? back up the answer by telling what's in your surrounding

does your friend mind? is he rich? or he's really angry right now?

yes, when i was in that scam, i at least tried to bring her to the place i want (a dessert shop nearby), i understand she is a stranger that requested to meet on the same day we matched in Tantan, i'm quite heavily guarded while wanting to meet her.

turn out she's firmer than me and insist to go her way, that raised my alert further.

He is not rich
He is disappointed n sad after the incident

This post has been edited by jasonlim: Dec 3 2019, 11:02 PM

Guess your friend has very high ego to put up with 2k, if they scam me this much I'd be definitely angry and go for revenge

First he order the wine with his consent
Second was ordered by the girl without his consent
The girl wanna order the third n told me friend she will foot the bill
Luckily my friend dodge the third one

This is a very well known scam when you visit China...

Travel more bro.. you will learn more about this world.

Also, it helps if you don't let your lil head control your big head. It never turns out well...

rm500+ can settle u heng ady bro.
but if u go ktv wth tat money u can hug few hours of prc i guess

u take the risk, so bear the risk la.

yes I think these scammers are hired by the bar!

similar scam/ story here...China tourists ask belanja makan..hunting in shopping mall.

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopi...post&p=94497693

diuuu.........u kena scam la! what to check??

first date ask for rm1k wine and show pissed face?

the problem is not that china girl only...its the bar hire her to scam you and they share profit....

maybe you can share which bar... name and location, let more ppl alert.

wow this even worse...rm2k??

should share the bar name..confirm that china scammer hired by the bar..

lol keyword match, any ktard dare to go meet her?