Yeah we started holding hands, and we moved up a level on our intimacy towards each other. Its just its mostly me starting to hold her hands first and always me that ones to initiate erhem in bed....Also i dont want her to be over dependent on me financially as she never offer to pay anything when eating/watching movie/clubbing. At this point im not sure shes just playing around with my feelings and i lowkey have the feeling that she will give excuses about her being 28 and not having the right perspectives and goals when i ask her about being together