Why waste your precious time and energy trying to be "loyal" to a person that's no longer yours?

agreed

Confirm liao you will be foreveralone!

And u believe it 100% ? No hope already....

This is true...lol

Don't take it 100% la... At least 90%. Another 10% might be some error in ur metaphysics calculation

Yes there are lol, what are you talking about??
sweetpotato01
Even if you try and muster up your energy effort and time to court someone, it would be impossible to find a partner if you're having a combo of being faceproblem, poor and less charismatic. You can try, you can put in effort, but I bet no other woman will like you other than just being a platonic friends. One wrong move on approaching woman and they will yell loudly claiming you're a creep whose after them

On flip side, if you're hot, rich and good looking, you approach any woman and they will fall for you, instantly. This is the truth: you pit a normal guy against usain bolt in short distance running, it would be utterly useless for that guy to win against the odds of beating the Olympic runner, no matter how hard he tries, no matter how much training and time he puts in, no matter how good of a coach you hire to train him. The same goes for dating, why would I suffer heartbreak knowing I will get rejected over and over and over again if I'm faceproblem and not rich, albeit having gone out of my way to pursue a relationship?

For surely, if I'm interested in a woman, there's gotta be tonnes more other guys who're highly capable than me(looks,finance,charisma,etc...) that has already fallen for her, so why bother fighting a losing battle?

Sometimes, it's wise to just quit, know your limits and move the hell on.

burgerRamli hey, you face the same problems too? You have my respect, sorry for (you) going through the trouble, I guess that's just how I program my mind to be haha and hope the best for your future

This post has been edited by Kanan Jarrus: Oct 16 2018, 08:07 AM

Ya'll got issues.

This world is harsh but if you know you're lacking then you're going to give up without trying to do something?

No one ask you to go for someone out of your league. And if you know the woman you're interested in have another guy who likes her, you will immediately back out without a try?

This post has been edited by sweetpotato01: Oct 16 2018, 12:29 PM

Reminds me a movie quote '我命犯天煞孤星，注定孤独终老‘, haha.

I think Bazi is correct in some way. If you are destined to be successful in this life, you will born to have those successful people traits, like hardworking, smart, never give up, full of confident, and there will be chances around you for you to grab. If you read those successful people biography, most of them already have these traits when they were young.

If you destined to fail, you will born to have those loser traits, like lazy, easily give up, not confident. Not smart is still ok, hardworking can still cover it.

Anyway, no matter how your Bazi tell you, you should always TRY to have those successful people traits/ positive attitude because life is full of possibilities and by doing so you increase at least a little bit of your chances to be successful.

Yup, true. Little bit is better than none.

Not sure what so dead being alone... But, the traits in no. i - iii, actually can be improve or change.

Definition of success is very subjective bro... Some ppl might wanna win battles for society to reckon, that this kinda success is bound by external expectation. For some, they may thinking about winning battle within oneself and it is a success to free yourself from everything...

This post has been edited by pencapchew: Oct 18 2018, 11:32 PM

Eh can meet people anywhere and everywhere! Go for sports activities. Go for social events. Go for corporate functions, etc.

Perhaps he just fulfill criteria no. i & iii...

Hi guys, i am 29 is still single since the days i was born.. i never wanted to be alone forever but i just dunno how to start a conversation with a girl that i 1st time saw and meet her. If I want flirt that girl but my mind keeps thinking about money cuz how much should i spend to treat her if each time we meet for a date.. right now my financial status are not stable at all.. anyone got idea how manage your money and your love life at the same time? Or anyone here ever experience this kind of problem?

This post has been edited by A183RT0: Oct 29 2018, 09:22 PM

Bro, better improve ur financial 1st before think about girls... If ur financial is stable, girls will attract to u coz they think u got security

lol, trust me, even if financial stable, it'll be a bit better, not necessarily big help on relationship

That's sum me up why I forever alone. But I'm happy

This post has been edited by kla2552: Oct 30 2018, 01:41 AM

Boy do u know that bazi can change ? lol