Hi, recently I learned Bazi from my friend and he found out that I will be very hard to find a wife and will be foreveralone. Some traits of people who is foreveralone is listed below;

i) choosy and perfectionist
ii) seldom go out socialise and will be very quiet in a big group
iii) finds it very comfortable just be alone at home
iv) miss out weddings... Either was outstation, travel or not being invited
v) miss out chances, most girls were taken or a wife

But then my friend told me it's ok not to have a companion coz I'll be doing just fine being alone.

Anyone interested to learn Bazi, kindly pm..

Tq.

This post has been edited by pencapchew: Oct 13 2018, 08:53 AM

what is bazi?

i'm interested, anyway, put that aside, i wanna know your opinion about it? do you just blindly believe it, or do you question it?

If ur chart tells you that you're going to be rich and lead a comfortable life without having to worry about finances, but if you sit around at home doing nothing but watching tv the whole day, do you think you'll end up with the life the chart says?

Hard to explain... It's a Chinese metaphysics thingy, they have their way to calculate ur energy and dna by forming a Bazi chart through 5 elements. And then uses that to derive and came with interpretations of your life and destiny... But the interpretations cannot just using 5 elements analysis alone. They have another 4 kinds of analysis to utilise. So basically, very complicated and calculative.

Obviously if you're not making an effort to go meet people and get to know people, you'll end up forever alone?

Some ppl just don't need that kinda effort and seems to have ppl swarming them, how dya explain that? So, ppl are unique, some ppl no matter how much effort to know ppl, ppl just wanna stay away from them... And then, there are some ppl is just like a magnet everywhere they go...

pencapchew , i think the main take away from all these is if you choose it(forever alone), rather then it choosing you...

if you've already have a mindset of willing to voluntarily be a forever alone like i do, then yeah sure. it's not great at all, but it sure is better than if you're being told you have no choice but to be alone all your life. the similar analogy is: you willingly choose a shitty job for 1 reason or another, its not that great but its better than you being shoved into doing a work that you're not even considering in the first place to begin with

i'm not sure if that's how i process my thoughts, but yeah it makes the job of accepting the life of being single for my whole life wayyy easier

And so living in a hole and keeping urself away from people's going to get u someone? Or help u achieve things in life?

Kanan Jarrus Yes that's right - well said

This post has been edited by tinkerbel: Oct 13 2018, 11:13 AM

Go out and get to meet girls la. Strike up conversations, take some risks. It's a numbers game in the end.

U will think it's voluntarily but in Bazi, it probably just being programmed in ur dna. Ppl tend to choose whichever lifestyle they are more comfortable with regardless of the norms. U don't feel great, but if u choose the "courtship and always thinking about girls part" path. u will probably feels more hardships and tiresome than what ur already chosen now...

In Bazi, there is a derivation that oil was so deep inside but ppl still find way to dig it out. eg. Jho Low, he may be living in a hole now, the deepest the better...but ppl still wanna find him.

Bazhi can only tell part of the story, the remaining parts depends on your karma and own effort as well

There are countless of babies being born at every moment, so can we say that those born at the same time share the same fate? Kind of ridiculous right?

No bazi can say that you are destinate to be alone unless you choose to be alone.

You can make your own future.

Lazada conman cheat one deal or 2 if you are really naive or stupid

Feng Shui conman cheat you for generations if you choose to believe.

its still useless if you ain't rich, good-looking or having a stable position in your career.

think about it, if you get attracted to a woman, surely there're bunch of other guys already eyeing on her, more so some with better qualities than you ever have, so what are the odds now?

that's just make the whole battle in courting pointless, rather just abandon it altogether, less drama that way

which is why it's the best if your able to carve your own path, rather than following the tradition imo

at the very least of it, even if you are alone at the end of the day, you know that you pick that route yourself in the first place, rather than placing blame on the Bazi

my 2 cents

Not all.women the same, you see poor blokes still got women crying over him

When you are chasing whats in front of you, you won't realize there are many more behind you that yearn to have what you have. When you got rejected by the women you admired, you won't realize there's other women that secretly admire you

When you think your life is shitty, there are many others who have even more fucked up life than you.

Bazi, didn't govern what u wanna make out of ur future, it is a calculation on what is programmed on ur dna... U can make ur own future as u like. The question whether it will be hard or easy only...

Can't blame bazi, it's only a calculation, and u just need to weigh in between the path u choose... Whether it's hard? Whether it's worth it? It's all down to analysing and understanding ur self better...

True... Dunno how to answer the probabilities of exact same person in this world tho

You've already given up. It's not the lack of money or a stable career that turns off women. It's the LACK of AMBITION.

Don't forget that there is only ONE you in your life. You are the main character. You are the only one that matters in your life.

Grab life by the balls and change yourself. They have a better career? Up your bloody game. They have a better physique? Boo hoo. Go lift.

It is very straight forward to me. If a woman is not attracted to you the blame is not on them, don't blame them for choosing someone better because it's your RESPONSIBILITY as a man to change and adapt. Its a dog eat dog world out there. Don't whine, don't complain and say that "oh my bazi says I'm destined to be forever alone, so I'm destined roll over and die a virgin".

Take ACTION and take charge to change your destiny. The truth is hard.

This post has been edited by AvenueX: Oct 13 2018, 12:34 PM

Bro, don't get too carried away about having a girl or ppl who has no effort in finding girl. Bazi never said that ur wrong If ur foreveralone, that's what society made up to be... So just chill