Men are trash! Lol. It'll take time before you can move on. Maybe months, maybe years. But do enjoy this heartbroken stage. When I was in the same situation with yours, I watched a lot of romance film. You'll not just watch the film, you'll feel it. And oh listen to songs too. You'll able to relate to almost every sad song. Yes it'll be sad but trust me when you've moved on you'll think back about all of these time and smile.

8 years + relationship just gone. He fell in love with his colleague. Heart broken.

Details:

he claims that he was working OT whole weekdays and even weekends sometimes, i was not by his side when he need my support because he was stress and tired. I admit this is our problem. we were long distance love. driving distance 2 hours per round trip. so we only meet every weekends.

But he can't just go for the other girl, right? I mean not cheating on me, he should talk to me properly. I will choose to leave if he really into that girl. he shouldn't started the relationship with his colleague when he is still with me. He even msg with that girl in front of me and avoiding to let me see the hp screen saying that he was in a group chat, tell me not to suspect him.
My heart is torn when I see him msg her " I miss u, all I want is you" those geli msg while I was with him!!! wtf

Cooking oil.

not good to laugh when ts is sad.. cz i once was in that situation as well..

funnybone

oi

still single??

I am in 11 years relationship. (gf now wife)

1) 3rd year : love somebody else for a while
2)4th year : love another girl for a while
3) 6th year : ons with 2 different girls
4)8th year : ons with another 2? Forgot
5) recent 1-2 years, i slept with quite a lot of different girls.

Those girls know i happily married. And most of them kacau me first. Ya i am tall successful and good looking.

My wife might know too i play around, i go home with different perfume smell sometime.

She once told me referring to another couple, quarrelling and expecting we guys to be 100% loyal is stupid, wife should make sure guy feel good at home.

I am so bahagia.

***to ts, if you are in LDR because of career, obviously he is not your life #1 priority. If he is not, why should you be his #1?

Yes. I chose to leave. Cuz even back together. I won't trust him anymore. No point to be together if there's no trust. Suffer more